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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 497 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  2. 2.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  3. 3.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  4. 4.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  5. 5.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  6. 6.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  7. 7.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  8. 8.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or ask for a change? (a) give your reason (b) ask for a change
  9. 9.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  10. 10.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) what you would like (b) a list of faults (c) a loud sigh (d) a threat
  11. 11.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) upset (b) hungry (c) happy (d) sleepy
  12. 12.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You ignore me!” (b) “You never listen!” (c) “You’re so rude!” (d) “I feel left out.”
  13. 13.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say when it happens? (a) say what you would like (b) say when it happens
  14. 14.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name the action? (a) say why it matters (b) name the action
  15. 15.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) old fights (b) the other’s faults (c) the weather (d) your own feelings
  16. 16.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say how you feel? (a) say what you would like (b) say how you feel
  17. 17.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  18. 18.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  19. 19.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  20. 20.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  21. 21.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say how you feel? (a) name the action (b) say how you feel
  22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  23. 23.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  24. 24.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  25. 25.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or name your feeling? (a) ask for a change (b) name your feeling
  26. 26.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
  27. 27.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  28. 28.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  29. 29.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  30. 30.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  31. 31.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  32. 32.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  33. 33.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  34. 34.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  35. 35.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  36. 36.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  37. 37.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  38. 38.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Thanks for listening.” (b) “You should be sorry!” (c) “Whatever.” (d) “Too late.”
  39. 39.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  40. 40.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2

Answer key

  1. True
  2. an “I” statement
  3. step 1
  4. a blaming “you” line
  5. True
  6. a blaming “you” line
  7. step 3
  8. give your reason
  9. step 3
  10. what you would like
  11. upset
  12. “I feel left out.”
  13. say when it happens
  14. name the action
  15. your own feelings
  16. say how you feel
  17. an “I” statement
  18. an “I” statement
  19. step 2
  20. a blaming “you” line
  21. say how you feel
  22. say why it matters
  23. True
  24. False
  25. name your feeling
  26. say why it matters
  27. False
  28. False
  29. step 4
  30. True
  31. an “I” statement
  32. True
  33. a blaming “you” line
  34. an “I” statement
  35. False
  36. True
  37. an “I” statement
  38. “Thanks for listening.”
  39. False
  40. step 2

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