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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 506 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  2. 2.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  3. 3.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say how you feel? (a) say why it matters (b) say how you feel
  4. 4.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  5. 5.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  6. 6.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say when it happens? (a) say what you would like (b) say when it happens
  7. 7.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  8. 8.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  9. 9.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  10. 10.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  11. 11.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  12. 12.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) sleepy (b) hungry (c) upset (d) happy
  13. 13.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say how you feel? (a) say when it happens (b) say how you feel
  14. 14.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  15. 15.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  16. 16.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  17. 17.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a loud sigh (b) a threat (c) what you would like (d) a list of faults
  18. 18.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  19. 19.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  20. 20.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  21. 21.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  22. 22.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  23. 23.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  24. 24.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  25. 25.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  26. 26.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say how you feel? (a) ask for a change (b) say how you feel
  27. 27.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  28. 28.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  29. 29.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they don’t attack (b) they win the fight (c) they sound louder (d) they hide feelings
  30. 30.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say how you feel? (a) say what you would like (b) say how you feel
  31. 31.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Thanks for listening.” (b) “Too late.” (c) “You should be sorry!” (d) “Whatever.”
  32. 32.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) old fights (b) your own feelings (c) the weather (d) the other’s faults
  33. 33.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You ignore me!” (b) “I feel left out.” (c) “You’re so rude!” (d) “You never listen!”
  34. 34.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  35. 35.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  36. 36.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say what you would like? (a) say how you feel (b) say what you would like
  38. 38.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or name your feeling? (a) name the action (b) name your feeling
  39. 39.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say when it happens? (a) ask for a change (b) say when it happens

Answer key

  1. a blaming “you” line
  2. False
  3. say how you feel
  4. an “I” statement
  5. step 3
  6. say when it happens
  7. step 4
  8. an “I” statement
  9. step 2
  10. a blaming “you” line
  11. an “I” statement
  12. upset
  13. say how you feel
  14. False
  15. give your reason
  16. True
  17. what you would like
  18. True
  19. step 2
  20. False
  21. a blaming “you” line
  22. step 1
  23. False
  24. True
  25. give your reason
  26. say how you feel
  27. step 1
  28. an “I” statement
  29. they don’t attack
  30. say how you feel
  31. “Thanks for listening.”
  32. your own feelings
  33. “I feel left out.”
  34. False
  35. True
  36. a blaming “you” line
  37. say how you feel
  38. name your feeling
  39. False
  40. say when it happens

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