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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 509 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  2. 2.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  3. 3.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  4. 4.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  5. 5.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You’re so rude!” (b) “I feel left out.” (c) “You ignore me!” (d) “You never listen!”
  6. 6.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they win the fight (b) they sound louder (c) they hide feelings (d) they don’t attack
  7. 7.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or give your reason? (a) say how you feel (b) give your reason
  8. 8.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name the action? (a) say what you would like (b) name the action
  9. 9.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say when it happens? (a) give your reason (b) say when it happens
  10. 10.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  11. 11.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  12. 12.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say how you feel? (a) say why it matters (b) say how you feel
  13. 13.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  14. 14.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say how you feel? (a) say when it happens (b) say how you feel
  15. 15.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  16. 16.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  17. 17.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say when it happens? (a) ask for a change (b) say when it happens
  18. 18.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  19. 19.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say when it happens? (a) say what you would like (b) say when it happens
  20. 20.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Whatever.” (b) “You should be sorry!” (c) “Thanks for listening.” (d) “Too late.”
  21. 21.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) old fights (b) the weather (c) your own feelings (d) the other’s faults
  22. 22.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) upset (b) hungry (c) sleepy (d) happy
  23. 23.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  24. 24.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  25. 25.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say how you feel? (a) say what you would like (b) say how you feel
  26. 26.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  27. 27.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  28. 28.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  29. 29.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a list of faults (b) what you would like (c) a threat (d) a loud sigh
  30. 30.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  31. 31.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  32. 32.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  33. 33.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  34. 34.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  35. 35.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  36. 36.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  37. 37.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  38. 38.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  39. 39.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or name the action? (a) ask for a change (b) name the action
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like

Answer key

  1. a blaming “you” line
  2. False
  3. step 2
  4. False
  5. “I feel left out.”
  6. they don’t attack
  7. say how you feel
  8. name the action
  9. say when it happens
  10. give your reason
  11. an “I” statement
  12. say how you feel
  13. step 1
  14. say how you feel
  15. step 3
  16. an “I” statement
  17. say when it happens
  18. step 4
  19. say when it happens
  20. “Thanks for listening.”
  21. your own feelings
  22. upset
  23. a blaming “you” line
  24. True
  25. say how you feel
  26. False
  27. a blaming “you” line
  28. step 1
  29. what you would like
  30. True
  31. a blaming “you” line
  32. True
  33. True
  34. False
  35. give your reason
  36. step 4
  37. a blaming “you” line
  38. an “I” statement
  39. name the action
  40. say why it matters

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