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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 517 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  2. 2.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  3. 3.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  4. 4.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a threat (b) a list of faults (c) a loud sigh (d) what you would like
  5. 5.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  6. 6.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Too late.” (b) “You should be sorry!” (c) “Whatever.” (d) “Thanks for listening.”
  7. 7.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “I feel left out.” (b) “You ignore me!” (c) “You’re so rude!” (d) “You never listen!”
  8. 8.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  9. 9.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  10. 10.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  11. 11.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  12. 12.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  13. 13.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they don’t attack (b) they win the fight (c) they hide feelings (d) they sound louder
  14. 14.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say how you feel? (a) ask for a change (b) say how you feel
  15. 15.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  16. 16.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  17. 17.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  18. 18.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  19. 19.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  20. 20.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) sleepy (b) upset (c) happy (d) hungry
  21. 21.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
  23. 23.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  24. 24.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  25. 25.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name your feeling? (a) say what you would like (b) name your feeling
  26. 26.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  27. 27.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say when it happens? (a) ask for a change (b) say when it happens
  28. 28.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  29. 29.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  30. 30.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  31. 31.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  32. 32.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  33. 33.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  34. 34.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say why it matters? (a) name the action (b) say why it matters
  35. 35.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  36. 36.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  37. 37.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  38. 38.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  39. 39.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say how you feel? (a) say when it happens (b) say how you feel

Answer key

  1. an “I” statement
  2. True
  3. False
  4. what you would like
  5. True
  6. “Thanks for listening.”
  7. “I feel left out.”
  8. False
  9. step 2
  10. give your reason
  11. a blaming “you” line
  12. step 3
  13. they don’t attack
  14. say how you feel
  15. step 4
  16. True
  17. an “I” statement
  18. say why it matters
  19. an “I” statement
  20. upset
  21. True
  22. say why it matters
  23. step 2
  24. a blaming “you” line
  25. name your feeling
  26. False
  27. say when it happens
  28. say why it matters
  29. a blaming “you” line
  30. False
  31. an “I” statement
  32. False
  33. step 1
  34. name the action
  35. an “I” statement
  36. True
  37. step 4
  38. step 1
  39. step 3
  40. say how you feel

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