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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 541 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  2. 2.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  3. 3.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  4. 4.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  5. 5.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  6. 6.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  7. 7.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  8. 8.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  9. 9.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  10. 10.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  11. 11.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a list of faults (b) a threat (c) a loud sigh (d) what you would like
  12. 12.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  13. 13.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  14. 14.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Too late.” (b) “You should be sorry!” (c) “Whatever.” (d) “Thanks for listening.”
  15. 15.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  16. 16.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say how you feel? (a) say what you would like (b) say how you feel
  17. 17.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  18. 18.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “I feel left out.” (b) “You never listen!” (c) “You’re so rude!” (d) “You ignore me!”
  19. 19.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  20. 20.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say what you would like? (a) say when it happens (b) say what you would like
  21. 21.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or ask for a change? (a) give your reason (b) ask for a change
  22. 22.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  23. 23.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  24. 24.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  25. 25.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  26. 26.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  27. 27.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  28. 28.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  29. 29.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
  30. 30.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  31. 31.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) happy (b) upset (c) sleepy (d) hungry
  32. 32.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  33. 33.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  34. 34.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  35. 35.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  36. 36.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  37. 37.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  38. 38.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  39. 39.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name your feeling? (a) say what you would like (b) name your feeling
  40. 40.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True

Answer key

  1. step 1
  2. True
  3. True
  4. True
  5. step 1
  6. give your reason
  7. False
  8. step 2
  9. an “I” statement
  10. a blaming “you” line
  11. what you would like
  12. step 3
  13. True
  14. “Thanks for listening.”
  15. True
  16. say how you feel
  17. False
  18. “I feel left out.”
  19. True
  20. say when it happens
  21. give your reason
  22. True
  23. step 2
  24. False
  25. an “I” statement
  26. False
  27. give your reason
  28. a blaming “you” line
  29. say why it matters
  30. step 4
  31. upset
  32. say why it matters
  33. False
  34. True
  35. a blaming “you” line
  36. a blaming “you” line
  37. True
  38. a blaming “you” line
  39. name your feeling
  40. True

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