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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 557 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) your own feelings (b) old fights (c) the other’s faults (d) the weather
  2. 2.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  3. 3.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  4. 4.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  6. 6.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
  7. 7.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  8. 8.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  9. 9.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a threat (b) a loud sigh (c) what you would like (d) a list of faults
  10. 10.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or name the action? (a) give your reason (b) name the action
  11. 11.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name your feeling? (a) say what you would like (b) name your feeling
  12. 12.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  13. 13.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  14. 14.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  15. 15.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  16. 16.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they win the fight (b) they hide feelings (c) they sound louder (d) they don’t attack
  17. 17.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  18. 18.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  19. 19.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  20. 20.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) happy (b) hungry (c) sleepy (d) upset
  21. 21.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say what you would like? (a) name your feeling (b) say what you would like
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or give your reason? (a) name your feeling (b) give your reason
  24. 24.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  25. 25.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  26. 26.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  27. 27.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say how you feel? (a) say what you would like (b) say how you feel
  28. 28.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  29. 29.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say why it matters? (a) say how you feel (b) say why it matters
  30. 30.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  31. 31.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or ask for a change? (a) name your feeling (b) ask for a change
  32. 32.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say why it matters? (a) name the action (b) say why it matters
  33. 33.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  34. 34.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  35. 35.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  36. 36.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  37. 37.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  38. 38.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  39. 39.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or ask for a change? (a) give your reason (b) ask for a change
  40. 40.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4

Answer key

  1. your own feelings
  2. step 3
  3. give your reason
  4. step 2
  5. a blaming “you” line
  6. say why it matters
  7. a blaming “you” line
  8. a blaming “you” line
  9. what you would like
  10. name the action
  11. name your feeling
  12. step 2
  13. an “I” statement
  14. False
  15. True
  16. they don’t attack
  17. an “I” statement
  18. an “I” statement
  19. step 1
  20. upset
  21. True
  22. name your feeling
  23. name your feeling
  24. step 1
  25. give your reason
  26. False
  27. say how you feel
  28. True
  29. say how you feel
  30. True
  31. name your feeling
  32. name the action
  33. False
  34. False
  35. an “I” statement
  36. True
  37. False
  38. False
  39. give your reason
  40. step 3

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