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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 56 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  2. 2.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  3. 3.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  4. 4.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they win the fight (b) they hide feelings (c) they don’t attack (d) they sound louder
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  6. 6.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) hungry (b) sleepy (c) upset (d) happy
  7. 7.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  8. 8.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You’re so rude!” (b) “I feel left out.” (c) “You never listen!” (d) “You ignore me!”
  9. 9.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  10. 10.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Thanks for listening.” (b) “Too late.” (c) “You should be sorry!” (d) “Whatever.”
  11. 11.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  12. 12.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  13. 13.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  14. 14.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say when it happens? (a) ask for a change (b) say when it happens
  15. 15.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  16. 16.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  17. 17.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  18. 18.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  19. 19.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  20. 20.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or give your reason? (a) say when it happens (b) give your reason
  21. 21.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  22. 22.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens
  24. 24.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
  25. 25.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  26. 26.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say how you feel? (a) say when it happens (b) say how you feel
  27. 27.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or ask for a change? (a) name your feeling (b) ask for a change
  28. 28.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  29. 29.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  30. 30.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  31. 31.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  32. 32.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say what you would like? (a) say how you feel (b) say what you would like
  33. 33.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  34. 34.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  35. 35.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  36. 36.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or give your reason? (a) say how you feel (b) give your reason
  38. 38.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  39. 39.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  40. 40.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement

Answer key

  1. False
  2. True
  3. True
  4. they don’t attack
  5. an “I” statement
  6. upset
  7. False
  8. “I feel left out.”
  9. True
  10. “Thanks for listening.”
  11. an “I” statement
  12. step 2
  13. step 3
  14. say when it happens
  15. step 1
  16. an “I” statement
  17. a blaming “you” line
  18. False
  19. a blaming “you” line
  20. say when it happens
  21. a blaming “you” line
  22. step 4
  23. say when it happens
  24. say why it matters
  25. an “I” statement
  26. say how you feel
  27. name your feeling
  28. a blaming “you” line
  29. an “I” statement
  30. False
  31. a blaming “you” line
  32. say how you feel
  33. step 2
  34. step 3
  35. step 4
  36. False
  37. say how you feel
  38. True
  39. True
  40. an “I” statement

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