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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 561 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  2. 2.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a threat (b) a list of faults (c) what you would like (d) a loud sigh
  3. 3.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  4. 4.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say how you feel? (a) name the action (b) say how you feel
  5. 5.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say when it happens? (a) say what you would like (b) say when it happens
  6. 6.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  7. 7.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  8. 8.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  9. 9.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  10. 10.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or give your reason? (a) say when it happens (b) give your reason
  11. 11.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  12. 12.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  13. 13.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  14. 14.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they don’t attack (b) they win the fight (c) they sound louder (d) they hide feelings
  15. 15.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  16. 16.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You never listen!” (b) “I feel left out.” (c) “You’re so rude!” (d) “You ignore me!”
  17. 17.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  18. 18.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  19. 19.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  20. 20.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  21. 21.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  22. 22.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “You should be sorry!” (b) “Too late.” (c) “Thanks for listening.” (d) “Whatever.”
  23. 23.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  24. 24.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  25. 25.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  26. 26.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  27. 27.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  28. 28.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  29. 29.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  30. 30.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) happy (b) hungry (c) sleepy (d) upset
  31. 31.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  32. 32.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  33. 33.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  34. 34.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  35. 35.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  36. 36.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  37. 37.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  38. 38.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say what you would like? (a) say when it happens (b) say what you would like
  39. 39.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  40. 40.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False

Answer key

  1. True
  2. what you would like
  3. give your reason
  4. say how you feel
  5. say when it happens
  6. step 2
  7. step 4
  8. say why it matters
  9. an “I” statement
  10. say when it happens
  11. True
  12. an “I” statement
  13. step 3
  14. they don’t attack
  15. a blaming “you” line
  16. “I feel left out.”
  17. False
  18. an “I” statement
  19. a blaming “you” line
  20. a blaming “you” line
  21. False
  22. “Thanks for listening.”
  23. False
  24. step 2
  25. True
  26. an “I” statement
  27. True
  28. give your reason
  29. False
  30. upset
  31. say why it matters
  32. an “I” statement
  33. a blaming “you” line
  34. True
  35. False
  36. an “I” statement
  37. False
  38. say when it happens
  39. a blaming “you” line
  40. False

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