I Statements Worksheet for Kids
Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.
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- 1.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
- 2.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “You should be sorry!” (b) “Too late.” (c) “Thanks for listening.” (d) “Whatever.”
- 3.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
- 4.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
- 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
- 6.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or name the action? (a) say how you feel (b) name the action
- 7.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 8.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 9.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a list of faults (b) a loud sigh (c) what you would like (d) a threat
- 10.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
- 11.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) upset (b) happy (c) sleepy (d) hungry
- 12.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
- 13.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or name your feeling? (a) say when it happens (b) name your feeling
- 14.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
- 15.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
- 16.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 17.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
- 18.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say how you feel? (a) say why it matters (b) say how you feel
- 19.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
- 20.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
- 21.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
- 22.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You never listen!” (b) “I feel left out.” (c) “You ignore me!” (d) “You’re so rude!”
- 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say what you would like? (a) say how you feel (b) say what you would like
- 24.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
- 25.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
- 26.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 27.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
- 28.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 29.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
- 30.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
- 31.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 32.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say what you would like? (a) say when it happens (b) say what you would like
- 33.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 34.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
- 35.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
- 36.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
- 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name the action? (a) say what you would like (b) name the action
- 38.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
- 39.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
- 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
Answer key
- True
- “Thanks for listening.”
- False
- False
- an “I” statement
- say how you feel
- step 3
- step 1
- what you would like
- a blaming “you” line
- upset
- say why it matters
- name your feeling
- True
- a blaming “you” line
- step 2
- an “I” statement
- say how you feel
- False
- False
- True
- “I feel left out.”
- say how you feel
- True
- an “I” statement
- step 3
- an “I” statement
- step 2
- a blaming “you” line
- a blaming “you” line
- step 1
- say when it happens
- step 4
- True
- False
- True
- name the action
- True
- an “I” statement
- say why it matters
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