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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 580 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  2. 2.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  3. 3.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they sound louder (b) they win the fight (c) they hide feelings (d) they don’t attack
  4. 4.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  6. 6.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  7. 7.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens
  8. 8.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  9. 9.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “You should be sorry!” (b) “Thanks for listening.” (c) “Too late.” (d) “Whatever.”
  10. 10.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  11. 11.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  12. 12.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  13. 13.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  14. 14.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  15. 15.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  16. 16.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  17. 17.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  18. 18.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  19. 19.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  20. 20.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  21. 21.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  22. 22.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  23. 23.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a threat (b) a loud sigh (c) what you would like (d) a list of faults
  24. 24.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  25. 25.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  26. 26.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the other’s faults (b) the weather (c) your own feelings (d) old fights
  27. 27.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name your feeling? (a) say what you would like (b) name your feeling
  28. 28.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  29. 29.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  30. 30.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  31. 31.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say how you feel? (a) ask for a change (b) say how you feel
  32. 32.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  33. 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say when it happens? (a) give your reason (b) say when it happens
  34. 34.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  35. 35.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You never listen!” (b) “You ignore me!” (c) “You’re so rude!” (d) “I feel left out.”
  36. 36.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or ask for a change? (a) name the action (b) ask for a change
  38. 38.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say why it matters? (a) say how you feel (b) say why it matters
  39. 39.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  40. 40.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement

Answer key

  1. step 2
  2. True
  3. they don’t attack
  4. a blaming “you” line
  5. an “I” statement
  6. True
  7. say when it happens
  8. a blaming “you” line
  9. “Thanks for listening.”
  10. step 2
  11. False
  12. an “I” statement
  13. a blaming “you” line
  14. an “I” statement
  15. say why it matters
  16. a blaming “you” line
  17. an “I” statement
  18. True
  19. step 3
  20. True
  21. False
  22. a blaming “you” line
  23. what you would like
  24. False
  25. a blaming “you” line
  26. your own feelings
  27. name your feeling
  28. False
  29. step 1
  30. an “I” statement
  31. say how you feel
  32. a blaming “you” line
  33. say when it happens
  34. True
  35. “I feel left out.”
  36. give your reason
  37. name the action
  38. say how you feel
  39. False
  40. an “I” statement

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