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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 592 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  2. 2.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  3. 3.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they hide feelings (b) they win the fight (c) they don’t attack (d) they sound louder
  4. 4.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or name your feeling? (a) say when it happens (b) name your feeling
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  6. 6.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or ask for a change? (a) say how you feel (b) ask for a change
  7. 7.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  8. 8.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  9. 9.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  10. 10.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  11. 11.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  12. 12.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  13. 13.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  14. 14.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  15. 15.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Too late.” (b) “You should be sorry!” (c) “Whatever.” (d) “Thanks for listening.”
  16. 16.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) what you would like (b) a list of faults (c) a threat (d) a loud sigh
  17. 17.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  18. 18.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  19. 19.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  20. 20.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  21. 21.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say why it matters? (a) name your feeling (b) say why it matters
  22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say when it happens? (a) name your feeling (b) say when it happens
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say how you feel? (a) ask for a change (b) say how you feel
  24. 24.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  25. 25.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say why it matters? (a) name the action (b) say why it matters
  26. 26.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  27. 27.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens
  28. 28.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name the action? (a) say what you would like (b) name the action
  29. 29.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say what you would like? (a) name your feeling (b) say what you would like
  30. 30.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  31. 31.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  32. 32.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  33. 33.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You never listen!” (b) “I feel left out.” (c) “You ignore me!” (d) “You’re so rude!”
  34. 34.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  35. 35.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  36. 36.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name the action? (a) say why it matters (b) name the action
  37. 37.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  38. 38.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say how you feel? (a) say why it matters (b) say how you feel
  39. 39.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  40. 40.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement

Answer key

  1. True
  2. an “I” statement
  3. they don’t attack
  4. name your feeling
  5. an “I” statement
  6. say how you feel
  7. False
  8. say why it matters
  9. a blaming “you” line
  10. True
  11. a blaming “you” line
  12. step 4
  13. False
  14. step 2
  15. “Thanks for listening.”
  16. what you would like
  17. an “I” statement
  18. True
  19. True
  20. step 2
  21. name your feeling
  22. name your feeling
  23. say how you feel
  24. an “I” statement
  25. name the action
  26. step 3
  27. say when it happens
  28. name the action
  29. name your feeling
  30. an “I” statement
  31. step 1
  32. step 1
  33. “I feel left out.”
  34. False
  35. give your reason
  36. name the action
  37. False
  38. say how you feel
  39. step 4
  40. an “I” statement

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