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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 603 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say how you feel? (a) give your reason (b) say how you feel
  2. 2.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or give your reason? (a) name the action (b) give your reason
  3. 3.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  4. 4.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  6. 6.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  7. 7.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say when it happens? (a) ask for a change (b) say when it happens
  8. 8.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  9. 9.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “I feel left out.” (b) “You never listen!” (c) “You’re so rude!” (d) “You ignore me!”
  10. 10.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  11. 11.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) sleepy (b) happy (c) upset (d) hungry
  12. 12.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  13. 13.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  14. 14.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  15. 15.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  16. 16.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  17. 17.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  18. 18.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  19. 19.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a threat (b) a list of faults (c) what you would like (d) a loud sigh
  20. 20.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name your feeling? (a) say why it matters (b) name your feeling
  21. 21.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens
  23. 23.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  24. 24.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they hide feelings (b) they sound louder (c) they win the fight (d) they don’t attack
  25. 25.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say how you feel? (a) say what you would like (b) say how you feel
  26. 26.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  27. 27.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  28. 28.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  29. 29.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  30. 30.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  31. 31.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  32. 32.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  33. 33.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  34. 34.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  35. 35.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  36. 36.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  37. 37.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  38. 38.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the weather (b) your own feelings (c) the other’s faults (d) old fights
  39. 39.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or ask for a change? (a) give your reason (b) ask for a change
  40. 40.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line

Answer key

  1. say how you feel
  2. name the action
  3. a blaming “you” line
  4. True
  5. a blaming “you” line
  6. say why it matters
  7. say when it happens
  8. step 3
  9. “I feel left out.”
  10. a blaming “you” line
  11. upset
  12. a blaming “you” line
  13. step 2
  14. step 1
  15. an “I” statement
  16. step 4
  17. give your reason
  18. True
  19. what you would like
  20. name your feeling
  21. True
  22. say when it happens
  23. step 3
  24. they don’t attack
  25. say how you feel
  26. True
  27. False
  28. False
  29. an “I” statement
  30. say why it matters
  31. give your reason
  32. True
  33. False
  34. a blaming “you” line
  35. False
  36. True
  37. step 2
  38. your own feelings
  39. give your reason
  40. an “I” statement

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