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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 630 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  2. 2.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  3. 3.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  4. 4.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  5. 5.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say why it matters? (a) say how you feel (b) say why it matters
  6. 6.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  7. 7.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  8. 8.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  9. 9.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Whatever.” (b) “Thanks for listening.” (c) “Too late.” (d) “You should be sorry!”
  10. 10.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  11. 11.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say how you feel? (a) say when it happens (b) say how you feel
  12. 12.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or ask for a change? (a) give your reason (b) ask for a change
  13. 13.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  14. 14.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  15. 15.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  16. 16.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say what you would like? (a) say how you feel (b) say what you would like
  17. 17.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  18. 18.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  19. 19.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) your own feelings (b) the weather (c) the other’s faults (d) old fights
  20. 20.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say how you feel? (a) name the action (b) say how you feel
  21. 21.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say when it happens? (a) give your reason (b) say when it happens
  23. 23.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  24. 24.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You ignore me!” (b) “You’re so rude!” (c) “I feel left out.” (d) “You never listen!”
  25. 25.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  26. 26.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  27. 27.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  28. 28.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  29. 29.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or name the action? (a) give your reason (b) name the action
  30. 30.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  31. 31.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  32. 32.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  33. 33.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  34. 34.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say when it happens? (a) ask for a change (b) say when it happens
  35. 35.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or ask for a change? (a) name your feeling (b) ask for a change
  36. 36.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  37. 37.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  38. 38.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) hungry (b) sleepy (c) upset (d) happy
  39. 39.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  40. 40.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a threat (b) what you would like (c) a list of faults (d) a loud sigh

Answer key

  1. step 3
  2. say why it matters
  3. step 2
  4. an “I” statement
  5. say how you feel
  6. False
  7. a blaming “you” line
  8. step 3
  9. “Thanks for listening.”
  10. give your reason
  11. say how you feel
  12. give your reason
  13. False
  14. an “I” statement
  15. step 2
  16. say how you feel
  17. a blaming “you” line
  18. an “I” statement
  19. your own feelings
  20. say how you feel
  21. a blaming “you” line
  22. say when it happens
  23. a blaming “you” line
  24. “I feel left out.”
  25. False
  26. True
  27. say why it matters
  28. give your reason
  29. name the action
  30. give your reason
  31. True
  32. an “I” statement
  33. a blaming “you” line
  34. say when it happens
  35. name your feeling
  36. step 4
  37. step 1
  38. upset
  39. False
  40. what you would like

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