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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 632 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  2. 2.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say how you feel? (a) say what you would like (b) say how you feel
  3. 3.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  4. 4.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  5. 5.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  6. 6.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  7. 7.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  8. 8.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  9. 9.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  10. 10.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say when it happens? (a) say what you would like (b) say when it happens
  11. 11.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  12. 12.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) sleepy (b) upset (c) happy (d) hungry
  13. 13.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  14. 14.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You ignore me!” (b) “I feel left out.” (c) “You’re so rude!” (d) “You never listen!”
  15. 15.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say why it matters? (a) name your feeling (b) say why it matters
  16. 16.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  17. 17.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  18. 18.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  19. 19.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  20. 20.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say when it happens? (a) give your reason (b) say when it happens
  21. 21.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or give your reason? (a) say how you feel (b) give your reason
  22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or ask for a change? (a) name the action (b) ask for a change
  23. 23.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  24. 24.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  25. 25.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  26. 26.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say how you feel? (a) say why it matters (b) say how you feel
  27. 27.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  28. 28.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or ask for a change? (a) name your feeling (b) ask for a change
  29. 29.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  30. 30.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  31. 31.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  32. 32.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  33. 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name your feeling? (a) say why it matters (b) name your feeling
  34. 34.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  35. 35.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  36. 36.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  38. 38.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they hide feelings (b) they win the fight (c) they sound louder (d) they don’t attack
  39. 39.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or name the action? (a) name your feeling (b) name the action

Answer key

  1. False
  2. say how you feel
  3. an “I” statement
  4. False
  5. step 3
  6. False
  7. a blaming “you” line
  8. a blaming “you” line
  9. False
  10. say when it happens
  11. step 4
  12. upset
  13. True
  14. “I feel left out.”
  15. name your feeling
  16. an “I” statement
  17. step 1
  18. a blaming “you” line
  19. True
  20. say when it happens
  21. say how you feel
  22. name the action
  23. an “I” statement
  24. a blaming “you” line
  25. step 3
  26. say how you feel
  27. step 4
  28. name your feeling
  29. say why it matters
  30. True
  31. True
  32. a blaming “you” line
  33. name your feeling
  34. True
  35. a blaming “you” line
  36. an “I” statement
  37. give your reason
  38. they don’t attack
  39. give your reason
  40. name your feeling

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