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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 647 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  2. 2.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  3. 3.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Too late.” (b) “Whatever.” (c) “You should be sorry!” (d) “Thanks for listening.”
  4. 4.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say why it matters? (a) say how you feel (b) say why it matters
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  6. 6.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  7. 7.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say why it matters? (a) name your feeling (b) say why it matters
  8. 8.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  9. 9.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a threat (b) a loud sigh (c) what you would like (d) a list of faults
  10. 10.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  11. 11.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  12. 12.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say how you feel? (a) say what you would like (b) say how you feel
  13. 13.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  14. 14.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  15. 15.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  16. 16.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  17. 17.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  18. 18.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  19. 19.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  20. 20.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  21. 21.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say when it happens? (a) name your feeling (b) say when it happens
  23. 23.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  24. 24.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  25. 25.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  26. 26.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they hide feelings (b) they don’t attack (c) they sound louder (d) they win the fight
  27. 27.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  28. 28.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  29. 29.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  30. 30.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) your own feelings (b) the other’s faults (c) old fights (d) the weather
  31. 31.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  32. 32.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  33. 33.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  34. 34.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You never listen!” (b) “You ignore me!” (c) “You’re so rude!” (d) “I feel left out.”
  35. 35.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  36. 36.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  37. 37.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  38. 38.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  39. 39.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  40. 40.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True

Answer key

  1. False
  2. step 4
  3. “Thanks for listening.”
  4. say how you feel
  5. a blaming “you” line
  6. step 3
  7. name your feeling
  8. a blaming “you” line
  9. what you would like
  10. give your reason
  11. False
  12. say how you feel
  13. an “I” statement
  14. step 1
  15. a blaming “you” line
  16. say why it matters
  17. True
  18. a blaming “you” line
  19. an “I” statement
  20. True
  21. True
  22. name your feeling
  23. an “I” statement
  24. True
  25. say why it matters
  26. they don’t attack
  27. False
  28. False
  29. step 2
  30. your own feelings
  31. a blaming “you” line
  32. an “I” statement
  33. False
  34. “I feel left out.”
  35. step 2
  36. an “I” statement
  37. True
  38. a blaming “you” line
  39. step 4
  40. False

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