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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 659 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  2. 2.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  3. 3.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  4. 4.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say when it happens? (a) give your reason (b) say when it happens
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  6. 6.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) upset (b) sleepy (c) happy (d) hungry
  7. 7.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  8. 8.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  9. 9.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say when it happens? (a) say what you would like (b) say when it happens
  10. 10.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  11. 11.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or name the action? (a) name your feeling (b) name the action
  12. 12.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  13. 13.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  14. 14.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  15. 15.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  16. 16.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  17. 17.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  18. 18.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  19. 19.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say when it happens? (a) ask for a change (b) say when it happens
  20. 20.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) your own feelings (b) the other’s faults (c) the weather (d) old fights
  21. 21.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) what you would like (b) a list of faults (c) a threat (d) a loud sigh
  22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or give your reason? (a) name the action (b) give your reason
  23. 23.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  24. 24.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  25. 25.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
  26. 26.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  27. 27.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  28. 28.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or ask for a change? (a) say when it happens (b) ask for a change
  29. 29.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or name your feeling? (a) say when it happens (b) name your feeling
  30. 30.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  31. 31.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  32. 32.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  33. 33.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Thanks for listening.” (b) “You should be sorry!” (c) “Too late.” (d) “Whatever.”
  34. 34.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  35. 35.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  36. 36.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  37. 37.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  38. 38.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  39. 39.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they hide feelings (b) they sound louder (c) they win the fight (d) they don’t attack
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name the action? (a) say what you would like (b) name the action

Answer key

  1. step 2
  2. True
  3. say why it matters
  4. say when it happens
  5. a blaming “you” line
  6. upset
  7. step 1
  8. an “I” statement
  9. say when it happens
  10. an “I” statement
  11. name your feeling
  12. False
  13. step 3
  14. True
  15. a blaming “you” line
  16. True
  17. True
  18. an “I” statement
  19. say when it happens
  20. your own feelings
  21. what you would like
  22. name the action
  23. step 4
  24. a blaming “you” line
  25. say why it matters
  26. give your reason
  27. an “I” statement
  28. say when it happens
  29. name your feeling
  30. step 1
  31. an “I” statement
  32. True
  33. “Thanks for listening.”
  34. step 3
  35. step 2
  36. False
  37. False
  38. True
  39. they don’t attack
  40. name the action

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