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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 666 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  2. 2.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or ask for a change? (a) name your feeling (b) ask for a change
  3. 3.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “You should be sorry!” (b) “Too late.” (c) “Thanks for listening.” (d) “Whatever.”
  4. 4.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  5. 5.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  6. 6.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say when it happens? (a) give your reason (b) say when it happens
  7. 7.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a loud sigh (b) what you would like (c) a threat (d) a list of faults
  8. 8.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  9. 9.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  10. 10.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  11. 11.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  12. 12.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  13. 13.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You ignore me!” (b) “I feel left out.” (c) “You never listen!” (d) “You’re so rude!”
  14. 14.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  15. 15.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  16. 16.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  17. 17.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  18. 18.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  19. 19.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or name your feeling? (a) name the action (b) name your feeling
  20. 20.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  21. 21.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  22. 22.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  24. 24.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  25. 25.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the weather (b) old fights (c) the other’s faults (d) your own feelings
  26. 26.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  27. 27.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or name the action? (a) name your feeling (b) name the action
  28. 28.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  29. 29.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say what you would like? (a) say when it happens (b) say what you would like
  30. 30.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  31. 31.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or ask for a change? (a) name the action (b) ask for a change
  32. 32.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  33. 33.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  34. 34.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) happy (b) upset (c) sleepy (d) hungry
  35. 35.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or give your reason? (a) name your feeling (b) give your reason
  36. 36.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  37. 37.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  38. 38.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they sound louder (b) they win the fight (c) they don’t attack (d) they hide feelings
  39. 39.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or ask for a change? (a) say when it happens (b) ask for a change

Answer key

  1. False
  2. name your feeling
  3. “Thanks for listening.”
  4. True
  5. step 3
  6. say when it happens
  7. what you would like
  8. step 1
  9. a blaming “you” line
  10. False
  11. step 2
  12. step 2
  13. “I feel left out.”
  14. an “I” statement
  15. True
  16. True
  17. a blaming “you” line
  18. say why it matters
  19. name your feeling
  20. an “I” statement
  21. True
  22. step 3
  23. give your reason
  24. an “I” statement
  25. your own feelings
  26. an “I” statement
  27. name your feeling
  28. True
  29. say when it happens
  30. True
  31. name the action
  32. a blaming “you” line
  33. True
  34. upset
  35. name your feeling
  36. step 1
  37. a blaming “you” line
  38. they don’t attack
  39. False
  40. say when it happens

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