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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 668 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they hide feelings (b) they win the fight (c) they don’t attack (d) they sound louder
  2. 2.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  3. 3.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say when it happens? (a) say how you feel (b) say when it happens
  4. 4.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  5. 5.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “I feel left out.” (b) “You never listen!” (c) “You’re so rude!” (d) “You ignore me!”
  6. 6.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  7. 7.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  8. 8.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  9. 9.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  10. 10.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or give your reason? (a) name the action (b) give your reason
  11. 11.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say why it matters? (a) say how you feel (b) say why it matters
  12. 12.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  13. 13.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  14. 14.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  15. 15.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  16. 16.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  17. 17.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  18. 18.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  19. 19.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  20. 20.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or ask for a change? (a) give your reason (b) ask for a change
  21. 21.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  22. 22.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name the action? (a) say why it matters (b) name the action
  24. 24.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  25. 25.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say when it happens? (a) ask for a change (b) say when it happens
  26. 26.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  27. 27.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or name the action? (a) say how you feel (b) name the action
  28. 28.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  29. 29.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) what you would like (b) a list of faults (c) a loud sigh (d) a threat
  30. 30.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  31. 31.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say how you feel? (a) say why it matters (b) say how you feel
  32. 32.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  33. 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or ask for a change? (a) say how you feel (b) ask for a change
  34. 34.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  35. 35.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say how you feel? (a) give your reason (b) say how you feel
  36. 36.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  37. 37.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  38. 38.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  39. 39.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or name your feeling? (a) give your reason (b) name your feeling

Answer key

  1. they don’t attack
  2. step 1
  3. say how you feel
  4. False
  5. “I feel left out.”
  6. True
  7. a blaming “you” line
  8. an “I” statement
  9. step 3
  10. name the action
  11. say how you feel
  12. an “I” statement
  13. give your reason
  14. step 4
  15. step 2
  16. True
  17. step 3
  18. say why it matters
  19. step 2
  20. give your reason
  21. True
  22. True
  23. name the action
  24. False
  25. say when it happens
  26. an “I” statement
  27. say how you feel
  28. True
  29. what you would like
  30. a blaming “you” line
  31. say how you feel
  32. False
  33. say how you feel
  34. an “I” statement
  35. say how you feel
  36. True
  37. an “I” statement
  38. True
  39. False
  40. name your feeling

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