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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 673 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  2. 2.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Too late.” (b) “Whatever.” (c) “Thanks for listening.” (d) “You should be sorry!”
  3. 3.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  4. 4.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the weather (b) old fights (c) the other’s faults (d) your own feelings
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  6. 6.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  7. 7.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  8. 8.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  9. 9.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  10. 10.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  11. 11.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  12. 12.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say why it matters? (a) say when it happens (b) say why it matters
  13. 13.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  14. 14.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or ask for a change? (a) say how you feel (b) ask for a change
  15. 15.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  16. 16.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens
  17. 17.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  18. 18.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say why it matters? (a) name the action (b) say why it matters
  19. 19.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  20. 20.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  21. 21.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
  22. 22.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  23. 23.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  24. 24.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name your feeling? (a) say what you would like (b) name your feeling
  25. 25.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  26. 26.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  27. 27.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  28. 28.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  29. 29.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or ask for a change? (a) give your reason (b) ask for a change
  30. 30.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) hungry (b) sleepy (c) happy (d) upset
  31. 31.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  32. 32.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  33. 33.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  34. 34.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) what you would like (b) a loud sigh (c) a list of faults (d) a threat
  35. 35.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  36. 36.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say when it happens? (a) say how you feel (b) say when it happens
  38. 38.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You never listen!” (b) “You’re so rude!” (c) “I feel left out.” (d) “You ignore me!”
  39. 39.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say when it happens? (a) ask for a change (b) say when it happens
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say what you would like? (a) say when it happens (b) say what you would like

Answer key

  1. an “I” statement
  2. “Thanks for listening.”
  3. step 4
  4. your own feelings
  5. an “I” statement
  6. say why it matters
  7. a blaming “you” line
  8. an “I” statement
  9. True
  10. an “I” statement
  11. True
  12. say when it happens
  13. False
  14. say how you feel
  15. True
  16. say when it happens
  17. an “I” statement
  18. name the action
  19. False
  20. say why it matters
  21. say why it matters
  22. False
  23. an “I” statement
  24. name your feeling
  25. True
  26. a blaming “you” line
  27. False
  28. an “I” statement
  29. give your reason
  30. upset
  31. True
  32. a blaming “you” line
  33. step 1
  34. what you would like
  35. step 2
  36. step 4
  37. say how you feel
  38. “I feel left out.”
  39. say when it happens
  40. say when it happens

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