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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 675 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  2. 2.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) hungry (b) happy (c) upset (d) sleepy
  3. 3.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say when it happens? (a) name your feeling (b) say when it happens
  4. 4.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say how you feel? (a) name the action (b) say how you feel
  5. 5.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  6. 6.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  7. 7.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  8. 8.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  9. 9.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  10. 10.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  11. 11.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  12. 12.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  13. 13.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  14. 14.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say when it happens? (a) say how you feel (b) say when it happens
  15. 15.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  16. 16.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  17. 17.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Too late.” (b) “Whatever.” (c) “You should be sorry!” (d) “Thanks for listening.”
  18. 18.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or name your feeling? (a) ask for a change (b) name your feeling
  19. 19.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  20. 20.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  21. 21.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  22. 22.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  23. 23.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  24. 24.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name your feeling? (a) say what you would like (b) name your feeling
  25. 25.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  26. 26.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or give your reason? (a) say when it happens (b) give your reason
  27. 27.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “I feel left out.” (b) “You’re so rude!” (c) “You never listen!” (d) “You ignore me!”
  28. 28.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  29. 29.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  30. 30.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they hide feelings (b) they don’t attack (c) they sound louder (d) they win the fight
  31. 31.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or name your feeling? (a) name the action (b) name your feeling
  32. 32.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  33. 33.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) old fights (b) the weather (c) the other’s faults (d) your own feelings
  34. 34.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  35. 35.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  36. 36.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name your feeling? (a) say why it matters (b) name your feeling
  38. 38.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  39. 39.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say how you feel? (a) ask for a change (b) say how you feel

Answer key

  1. step 3
  2. upset
  3. name your feeling
  4. say how you feel
  5. step 1
  6. a blaming “you” line
  7. False
  8. a blaming “you” line
  9. a blaming “you” line
  10. False
  11. an “I” statement
  12. True
  13. True
  14. say how you feel
  15. True
  16. False
  17. “Thanks for listening.”
  18. name your feeling
  19. a blaming “you” line
  20. an “I” statement
  21. step 1
  22. step 4
  23. step 4
  24. name your feeling
  25. False
  26. say when it happens
  27. “I feel left out.”
  28. True
  29. a blaming “you” line
  30. they don’t attack
  31. name your feeling
  32. an “I” statement
  33. your own feelings
  34. True
  35. step 2
  36. a blaming “you” line
  37. name your feeling
  38. step 2
  39. True
  40. say how you feel

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