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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 68 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  2. 2.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  3. 3.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  4. 4.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  5. 5.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  6. 6.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  7. 7.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) sleepy (b) happy (c) upset (d) hungry
  8. 8.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  9. 9.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You never listen!” (b) “You ignore me!” (c) “I feel left out.” (d) “You’re so rude!”
  10. 10.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  11. 11.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  12. 12.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  13. 13.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  14. 14.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
  15. 15.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  16. 16.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Too late.” (b) “Whatever.” (c) “Thanks for listening.” (d) “You should be sorry!”
  17. 17.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  18. 18.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  19. 19.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  20. 20.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  21. 21.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say what you would like? (a) say how you feel (b) say what you would like
  23. 23.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  24. 24.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  25. 25.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  26. 26.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  27. 27.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  28. 28.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) what you would like (b) a threat (c) a list of faults (d) a loud sigh
  29. 29.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  30. 30.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  31. 31.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they hide feelings (b) they don’t attack (c) they win the fight (d) they sound louder
  32. 32.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  33. 33.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  34. 34.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  35. 35.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  36. 36.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the weather (b) the other’s faults (c) old fights (d) your own feelings
  37. 37.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  38. 38.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  39. 39.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason

Answer key

  1. a blaming “you” line
  2. an “I” statement
  3. give your reason
  4. a blaming “you” line
  5. True
  6. a blaming “you” line
  7. upset
  8. step 2
  9. “I feel left out.”
  10. False
  11. True
  12. a blaming “you” line
  13. step 3
  14. say why it matters
  15. an “I” statement
  16. “Thanks for listening.”
  17. step 1
  18. step 4
  19. True
  20. True
  21. step 4
  22. say how you feel
  23. False
  24. True
  25. an “I” statement
  26. True
  27. False
  28. what you would like
  29. False
  30. False
  31. they don’t attack
  32. False
  33. a blaming “you” line
  34. False
  35. an “I” statement
  36. your own feelings
  37. step 3
  38. step 1
  39. False
  40. give your reason

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