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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 705 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  2. 2.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  3. 3.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  4. 4.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “You should be sorry!” (b) “Whatever.” (c) “Thanks for listening.” (d) “Too late.”
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  6. 6.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  7. 7.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  8. 8.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  9. 9.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say how you feel? (a) say when it happens (b) say how you feel
  10. 10.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  11. 11.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  12. 12.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  13. 13.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  14. 14.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  15. 15.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  16. 16.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  17. 17.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  18. 18.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  19. 19.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  20. 20.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or name the action? (a) give your reason (b) name the action
  21. 21.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say how you feel? (a) give your reason (b) say how you feel
  24. 24.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  25. 25.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say when it happens? (a) name your feeling (b) say when it happens
  26. 26.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  27. 27.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  28. 28.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  29. 29.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  30. 30.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  31. 31.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they sound louder (b) they don’t attack (c) they hide feelings (d) they win the fight
  32. 32.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  33. 33.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  34. 34.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  35. 35.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name the action? (a) say what you would like (b) name the action
  36. 36.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) old fights (b) the other’s faults (c) your own feelings (d) the weather
  37. 37.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  38. 38.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) hungry (b) happy (c) sleepy (d) upset
  39. 39.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  40. 40.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You never listen!” (b) “I feel left out.” (c) “You’re so rude!” (d) “You ignore me!”

Answer key

  1. an “I” statement
  2. an “I” statement
  3. step 4
  4. “Thanks for listening.”
  5. an “I” statement
  6. step 3
  7. a blaming “you” line
  8. False
  9. say how you feel
  10. True
  11. False
  12. True
  13. give your reason
  14. False
  15. step 2
  16. step 1
  17. an “I” statement
  18. False
  19. a blaming “you” line
  20. name the action
  21. an “I” statement
  22. say why it matters
  23. say how you feel
  24. True
  25. name your feeling
  26. an “I” statement
  27. a blaming “you” line
  28. step 4
  29. step 1
  30. step 3
  31. they don’t attack
  32. say why it matters
  33. False
  34. an “I” statement
  35. name the action
  36. your own feelings
  37. step 2
  38. upset
  39. True
  40. “I feel left out.”

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