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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 715 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) sleepy (b) happy (c) hungry (d) upset
  2. 2.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say why it matters? (a) name your feeling (b) say why it matters
  3. 3.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say what you would like? (a) name your feeling (b) say what you would like
  4. 4.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  5. 5.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  6. 6.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  7. 7.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a loud sigh (b) what you would like (c) a list of faults (d) a threat
  8. 8.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  9. 9.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  10. 10.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Thanks for listening.” (b) “You should be sorry!” (c) “Too late.” (d) “Whatever.”
  11. 11.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  12. 12.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the other’s faults (b) the weather (c) old fights (d) your own feelings
  13. 13.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  14. 14.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  15. 15.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  16. 16.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or name the action? (a) ask for a change (b) name the action
  17. 17.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  18. 18.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  19. 19.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You ignore me!” (b) “I feel left out.” (c) “You’re so rude!” (d) “You never listen!”
  20. 20.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say when it happens? (a) give your reason (b) say when it happens
  21. 21.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  23. 23.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  24. 24.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  25. 25.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  26. 26.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  27. 27.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  28. 28.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or give your reason? (a) say how you feel (b) give your reason
  29. 29.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens
  30. 30.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  31. 31.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  32. 32.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  33. 33.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  34. 34.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  35. 35.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  36. 36.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say how you feel? (a) ask for a change (b) say how you feel
  38. 38.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  39. 39.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or ask for a change? (a) say how you feel (b) ask for a change

Answer key

  1. upset
  2. name your feeling
  3. name your feeling
  4. True
  5. False
  6. a blaming “you” line
  7. what you would like
  8. step 3
  9. False
  10. “Thanks for listening.”
  11. a blaming “you” line
  12. your own feelings
  13. step 3
  14. an “I” statement
  15. an “I” statement
  16. name the action
  17. False
  18. False
  19. “I feel left out.”
  20. say when it happens
  21. False
  22. say why it matters
  23. False
  24. False
  25. an “I” statement
  26. True
  27. a blaming “you” line
  28. say how you feel
  29. say when it happens
  30. an “I” statement
  31. True
  32. step 4
  33. False
  34. True
  35. an “I” statement
  36. step 2
  37. say how you feel
  38. an “I” statement
  39. True
  40. say how you feel

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