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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 72 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  2. 2.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  3. 3.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  4. 4.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  5. 5.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) happy (b) sleepy (c) upset (d) hungry
  6. 6.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  7. 7.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  8. 8.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  9. 9.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  10. 10.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say what you would like? (a) name the action (b) say what you would like
  11. 11.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  12. 12.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  13. 13.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  14. 14.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  15. 15.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  16. 16.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  17. 17.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or name the action? (a) ask for a change (b) name the action
  18. 18.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  19. 19.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  20. 20.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  21. 21.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a list of faults (b) a threat (c) a loud sigh (d) what you would like
  22. 22.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say how you feel? (a) give your reason (b) say how you feel
  24. 24.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  25. 25.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  26. 26.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  27. 27.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  28. 28.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  29. 29.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Too late.” (b) “Thanks for listening.” (c) “Whatever.” (d) “You should be sorry!”
  30. 30.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say when it happens? (a) give your reason (b) say when it happens
  31. 31.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or give your reason? (a) say when it happens (b) give your reason
  32. 32.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  33. 33.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  34. 34.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You’re so rude!” (b) “You never listen!” (c) “You ignore me!” (d) “I feel left out.”
  35. 35.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say how you feel? (a) say what you would like (b) say how you feel
  36. 36.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  38. 38.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  39. 39.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  40. 40.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line

Answer key

  1. a blaming “you” line
  2. step 3
  3. a blaming “you” line
  4. say why it matters
  5. upset
  6. True
  7. step 1
  8. step 2
  9. True
  10. name the action
  11. True
  12. a blaming “you” line
  13. False
  14. an “I” statement
  15. say why it matters
  16. an “I” statement
  17. name the action
  18. an “I” statement
  19. give your reason
  20. False
  21. what you would like
  22. False
  23. say how you feel
  24. an “I” statement
  25. a blaming “you” line
  26. step 4
  27. step 2
  28. True
  29. “Thanks for listening.”
  30. say when it happens
  31. say when it happens
  32. a blaming “you” line
  33. True
  34. “I feel left out.”
  35. say how you feel
  36. False
  37. say why it matters
  38. step 1
  39. False
  40. a blaming “you” line

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