I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 721 · 40 questions

Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

1. 1.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
2. 2.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
3. 3.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens
4. 4.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
5. 5.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You ignore me!” (b) “You’re so rude!” (c) “I feel left out.” (d) “You never listen!”
6. 6.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
7. 7.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
8. 8.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
9. 9.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
10. 10.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
11. 11.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
12. 12.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say how you feel? (a) say why it matters (b) say how you feel
13. 13.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
14. 14.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say how you feel? (a) say when it happens (b) say how you feel
15. 15.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Whatever.” (b) “Thanks for listening.” (c) “You should be sorry!” (d) “Too late.”
16. 16.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
17. 17.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they sound louder (b) they don’t attack (c) they hide feelings (d) they win the fight
18. 18.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say when it happens? (a) ask for a change (b) say when it happens
19. 19.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a list of faults (b) a loud sigh (c) a threat (d) what you would like
20. 20.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
21. 21.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
22. 22.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
23. 23.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
24. 24.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
25. 25.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
26. 26.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
27. 27.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or name the action? (a) say how you feel (b) name the action
28. 28.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say how you feel? (a) ask for a change (b) say how you feel
29. 29.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
30. 30.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
31. 31.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name the action? (a) say what you would like (b) name the action
32. 32.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
33. 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or name your feeling? (a) ask for a change (b) name your feeling
34. 34.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) upset (b) hungry (c) sleepy (d) happy
35. 35.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
36. 36.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
38. 38.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say when it happens? (a) say what you would like (b) say when it happens
39. 39.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say how you feel? (a) say what you would like (b) say how you feel
40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say why it matters? (a) say how you feel (b) say why it matters

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