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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 726 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  2. 2.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  3. 3.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  4. 4.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say what you would like? (a) name your feeling (b) say what you would like
  5. 5.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say why it matters? (a) say how you feel (b) say why it matters
  6. 6.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  7. 7.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  8. 8.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  9. 9.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You never listen!” (b) “I feel left out.” (c) “You’re so rude!” (d) “You ignore me!”
  10. 10.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  11. 11.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or ask for a change? (a) name the action (b) ask for a change
  12. 12.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  13. 13.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  14. 14.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  15. 15.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  16. 16.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  17. 17.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Too late.” (b) “You should be sorry!” (c) “Whatever.” (d) “Thanks for listening.”
  18. 18.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a list of faults (b) what you would like (c) a threat (d) a loud sigh
  19. 19.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  20. 20.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  21. 21.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  22. 22.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) hungry (b) upset (c) happy (d) sleepy
  23. 23.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  24. 24.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  25. 25.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  26. 26.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  27. 27.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they win the fight (b) they sound louder (c) they don’t attack (d) they hide feelings
  28. 28.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  29. 29.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  30. 30.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  31. 31.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  32. 32.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  33. 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name your feeling? (a) say why it matters (b) name your feeling
  34. 34.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  35. 35.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  36. 36.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say what you would like? (a) name the action (b) say what you would like
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or name the action? (a) say how you feel (b) name the action
  38. 38.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say when it happens? (a) give your reason (b) say when it happens
  39. 39.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  40. 40.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4

Answer key

  1. True
  2. a blaming “you” line
  3. an “I” statement
  4. name your feeling
  5. say how you feel
  6. False
  7. True
  8. an “I” statement
  9. “I feel left out.”
  10. step 4
  11. name the action
  12. an “I” statement
  13. a blaming “you” line
  14. give your reason
  15. a blaming “you” line
  16. True
  17. “Thanks for listening.”
  18. what you would like
  19. False
  20. False
  21. step 2
  22. upset
  23. an “I” statement
  24. step 2
  25. say why it matters
  26. False
  27. they don’t attack
  28. a blaming “you” line
  29. an “I” statement
  30. give your reason
  31. step 3
  32. False
  33. name your feeling
  34. step 1
  35. say why it matters
  36. name the action
  37. say how you feel
  38. say when it happens
  39. an “I” statement
  40. step 3

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