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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 728 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  2. 2.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  3. 3.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or name your feeling? (a) ask for a change (b) name your feeling
  4. 4.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  5. 5.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say why it matters? (a) say when it happens (b) say why it matters
  6. 6.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  7. 7.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  8. 8.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  9. 9.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  10. 10.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say what you would like? (a) say how you feel (b) say what you would like
  11. 11.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they hide feelings (b) they win the fight (c) they don’t attack (d) they sound louder
  12. 12.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  13. 13.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  14. 14.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  15. 15.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  16. 16.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  17. 17.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  18. 18.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  19. 19.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name the action? (a) say what you would like (b) name the action
  20. 20.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  21. 21.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  23. 23.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  24. 24.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  25. 25.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  26. 26.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  27. 27.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) hungry (b) happy (c) sleepy (d) upset
  28. 28.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  29. 29.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  30. 30.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  31. 31.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  32. 32.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  33. 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  34. 34.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  35. 35.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  36. 36.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  37. 37.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  38. 38.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  39. 39.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say how you feel? (a) say when it happens (b) say how you feel
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say when it happens? (a) give your reason (b) say when it happens

Answer key

  1. True
  2. an “I” statement
  3. name your feeling
  4. False
  5. say when it happens
  6. an “I” statement
  7. True
  8. True
  9. an “I” statement
  10. say how you feel
  11. they don’t attack
  12. an “I” statement
  13. step 4
  14. False
  15. False
  16. give your reason
  17. give your reason
  18. a blaming “you” line
  19. name the action
  20. False
  21. False
  22. say why it matters
  23. an “I” statement
  24. step 3
  25. False
  26. step 3
  27. upset
  28. True
  29. step 1
  30. step 4
  31. False
  32. step 2
  33. give your reason
  34. a blaming “you” line
  35. step 1
  36. True
  37. True
  38. a blaming “you” line
  39. say how you feel
  40. say when it happens

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