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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 739 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  2. 2.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  3. 3.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  4. 4.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  6. 6.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  7. 7.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  8. 8.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or name the action? (a) ask for a change (b) name the action
  9. 9.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  10. 10.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Thanks for listening.” (b) “Whatever.” (c) “You should be sorry!” (d) “Too late.”
  11. 11.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the other’s faults (b) old fights (c) the weather (d) your own feelings
  12. 12.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  13. 13.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a loud sigh (b) what you would like (c) a list of faults (d) a threat
  14. 14.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or name the action? (a) name your feeling (b) name the action
  15. 15.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  16. 16.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You never listen!” (b) “You’re so rude!” (c) “I feel left out.” (d) “You ignore me!”
  17. 17.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  18. 18.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or give your reason? (a) say how you feel (b) give your reason
  19. 19.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  20. 20.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  21. 21.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  22. 22.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  24. 24.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  25. 25.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  26. 26.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  27. 27.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  28. 28.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  29. 29.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  30. 30.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  31. 31.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they don’t attack (b) they win the fight (c) they sound louder (d) they hide feelings
  32. 32.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say why it matters? (a) say how you feel (b) say why it matters
  33. 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
  34. 34.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) sleepy (b) happy (c) hungry (d) upset
  35. 35.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  36. 36.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  37. 37.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  38. 38.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  39. 39.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  40. 40.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3

Answer key

  1. step 3
  2. a blaming “you” line
  3. False
  4. False
  5. an “I” statement
  6. an “I” statement
  7. step 1
  8. name the action
  9. an “I” statement
  10. “Thanks for listening.”
  11. your own feelings
  12. False
  13. what you would like
  14. name your feeling
  15. False
  16. “I feel left out.”
  17. False
  18. say how you feel
  19. an “I” statement
  20. True
  21. give your reason
  22. True
  23. say why it matters
  24. an “I” statement
  25. a blaming “you” line
  26. a blaming “you” line
  27. False
  28. give your reason
  29. True
  30. a blaming “you” line
  31. they don’t attack
  32. say how you feel
  33. say why it matters
  34. upset
  35. say why it matters
  36. True
  37. a blaming “you” line
  38. give your reason
  39. False
  40. step 4

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