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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 780 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name your feeling? (a) say what you would like (b) name your feeling
  2. 2.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  3. 3.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  4. 4.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  6. 6.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  7. 7.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say what you would like? (a) say how you feel (b) say what you would like
  8. 8.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  9. 9.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they don’t attack (b) they win the fight (c) they hide feelings (d) they sound louder
  10. 10.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  11. 11.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  12. 12.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the other’s faults (b) the weather (c) old fights (d) your own feelings
  13. 13.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  14. 14.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say why it matters? (a) name the action (b) say why it matters
  15. 15.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) happy (b) hungry (c) upset (d) sleepy
  16. 16.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  17. 17.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  18. 18.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  19. 19.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or name your feeling? (a) give your reason (b) name your feeling
  20. 20.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  21. 21.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say how you feel? (a) name the action (b) say how you feel
  23. 23.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  24. 24.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens
  25. 25.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  26. 26.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  27. 27.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You’re so rude!” (b) “I feel left out.” (c) “You never listen!” (d) “You ignore me!”
  28. 28.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  29. 29.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  30. 30.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  31. 31.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  32. 32.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  33. 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say what you would like? (a) say when it happens (b) say what you would like
  34. 34.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a threat (b) what you would like (c) a loud sigh (d) a list of faults
  35. 35.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  36. 36.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  37. 37.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  38. 38.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  39. 39.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say what you would like? (a) name the action (b) say what you would like
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or give your reason? (a) name the action (b) give your reason

Answer key

  1. name your feeling
  2. a blaming “you” line
  3. step 1
  4. True
  5. an “I” statement
  6. step 1
  7. say how you feel
  8. step 4
  9. they don’t attack
  10. an “I” statement
  11. an “I” statement
  12. your own feelings
  13. False
  14. name the action
  15. upset
  16. step 4
  17. a blaming “you” line
  18. an “I” statement
  19. name your feeling
  20. False
  21. a blaming “you” line
  22. say how you feel
  23. step 2
  24. say when it happens
  25. step 3
  26. True
  27. “I feel left out.”
  28. an “I” statement
  29. a blaming “you” line
  30. False
  31. step 3
  32. True
  33. say when it happens
  34. what you would like
  35. False
  36. give your reason
  37. True
  38. True
  39. name the action
  40. name the action

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