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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 792 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  2. 2.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say how you feel? (a) ask for a change (b) say how you feel
  3. 3.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  4. 4.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  5. 5.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  6. 6.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  7. 7.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  8. 8.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  9. 9.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or name your feeling? (a) give your reason (b) name your feeling
  10. 10.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name your feeling? (a) say why it matters (b) name your feeling
  11. 11.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  12. 12.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  13. 13.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or ask for a change? (a) name your feeling (b) ask for a change
  14. 14.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a threat (b) what you would like (c) a list of faults (d) a loud sigh
  15. 15.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  16. 16.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  17. 17.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or give your reason? (a) name your feeling (b) give your reason
  18. 18.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  19. 19.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they sound louder (b) they don’t attack (c) they hide feelings (d) they win the fight
  20. 20.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You never listen!” (b) “You’re so rude!” (c) “You ignore me!” (d) “I feel left out.”
  21. 21.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  22. 22.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  24. 24.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  25. 25.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  26. 26.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  27. 27.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  28. 28.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) upset (b) happy (c) hungry (d) sleepy
  29. 29.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens
  30. 30.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “You should be sorry!” (b) “Whatever.” (c) “Thanks for listening.” (d) “Too late.”
  31. 31.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  32. 32.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  33. 33.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  34. 34.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  35. 35.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say how you feel? (a) give your reason (b) say how you feel
  36. 36.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say why it matters? (a) name your feeling (b) say why it matters
  37. 37.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  38. 38.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  39. 39.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or ask for a change? (a) give your reason (b) ask for a change
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters

Answer key

  1. step 3
  2. say how you feel
  3. a blaming “you” line
  4. step 1
  5. True
  6. an “I” statement
  7. an “I” statement
  8. True
  9. name your feeling
  10. name your feeling
  11. a blaming “you” line
  12. an “I” statement
  13. name your feeling
  14. what you would like
  15. step 3
  16. True
  17. name your feeling
  18. give your reason
  19. they don’t attack
  20. “I feel left out.”
  21. True
  22. True
  23. say why it matters
  24. True
  25. a blaming “you” line
  26. True
  27. False
  28. upset
  29. say when it happens
  30. “Thanks for listening.”
  31. say why it matters
  32. step 2
  33. False
  34. step 4
  35. say how you feel
  36. name your feeling
  37. a blaming “you” line
  38. False
  39. give your reason
  40. say why it matters

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