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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 797 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  2. 2.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  3. 3.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  4. 4.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say how you feel? (a) give your reason (b) say how you feel
  5. 5.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name the action? (a) say why it matters (b) name the action
  6. 6.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  7. 7.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) old fights (b) your own feelings (c) the weather (d) the other’s faults
  8. 8.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  9. 9.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) hungry (b) sleepy (c) upset (d) happy
  10. 10.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  11. 11.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  12. 12.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they don’t attack (b) they hide feelings (c) they sound louder (d) they win the fight
  13. 13.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  14. 14.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  15. 15.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  16. 16.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  17. 17.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say when it happens? (a) say what you would like (b) say when it happens
  18. 18.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  19. 19.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or ask for a change? (a) give your reason (b) ask for a change
  20. 20.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You never listen!” (b) “I feel left out.” (c) “You ignore me!” (d) “You’re so rude!”
  21. 21.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  22. 22.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or name your feeling? (a) say when it happens (b) name your feeling
  24. 24.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  25. 25.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  26. 26.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  27. 27.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say what you would like? (a) say when it happens (b) say what you would like
  28. 28.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  29. 29.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  30. 30.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  31. 31.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name your feeling? (a) say what you would like (b) name your feeling
  32. 32.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  33. 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
  34. 34.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or give your reason? (a) say how you feel (b) give your reason
  35. 35.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a loud sigh (b) a list of faults (c) a threat (d) what you would like
  36. 36.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say why it matters? (a) say how you feel (b) say why it matters
  37. 37.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  38. 38.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or name the action? (a) give your reason (b) name the action
  39. 39.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  40. 40.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4

Answer key

  1. False
  2. a blaming “you” line
  3. False
  4. say how you feel
  5. name the action
  6. a blaming “you” line
  7. your own feelings
  8. an “I” statement
  9. upset
  10. step 3
  11. True
  12. they don’t attack
  13. True
  14. give your reason
  15. a blaming “you” line
  16. step 2
  17. say when it happens
  18. False
  19. give your reason
  20. “I feel left out.”
  21. step 1
  22. an “I” statement
  23. name your feeling
  24. False
  25. True
  26. False
  27. say when it happens
  28. step 4
  29. an “I” statement
  30. True
  31. name your feeling
  32. True
  33. say why it matters
  34. say how you feel
  35. what you would like
  36. say how you feel
  37. step 3
  38. name the action
  39. step 1
  40. step 4

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