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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 80 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  2. 2.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You’re so rude!” (b) “I feel left out.” (c) “You ignore me!” (d) “You never listen!”
  3. 3.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  4. 4.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  6. 6.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) happy (b) hungry (c) upset (d) sleepy
  7. 7.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  8. 8.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Whatever.” (b) “Too late.” (c) “Thanks for listening.” (d) “You should be sorry!”
  9. 9.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  10. 10.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  11. 11.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  12. 12.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  13. 13.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  14. 14.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  15. 15.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) your own feelings (b) the other’s faults (c) the weather (d) old fights
  16. 16.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  17. 17.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  18. 18.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  19. 19.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  20. 20.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  21. 21.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or name your feeling? (a) say when it happens (b) name your feeling
  22. 22.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  23. 23.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  24. 24.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  25. 25.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  26. 26.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  27. 27.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  28. 28.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  29. 29.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  30. 30.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  31. 31.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say what you would like? (a) name the action (b) say what you would like
  32. 32.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or name the action? (a) say how you feel (b) name the action
  33. 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say how you feel? (a) give your reason (b) say how you feel
  34. 34.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  35. 35.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  36. 36.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  37. 37.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  38. 38.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  39. 39.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters

Answer key

  1. False
  2. “I feel left out.”
  3. step 3
  4. a blaming “you” line
  5. a blaming “you” line
  6. upset
  7. True
  8. “Thanks for listening.”
  9. say why it matters
  10. an “I” statement
  11. True
  12. False
  13. True
  14. give your reason
  15. your own feelings
  16. a blaming “you” line
  17. step 2
  18. step 1
  19. step 2
  20. step 1
  21. name your feeling
  22. an “I” statement
  23. True
  24. an “I” statement
  25. True
  26. step 3
  27. an “I” statement
  28. an “I” statement
  29. a blaming “you” line
  30. True
  31. name the action
  32. say how you feel
  33. say how you feel
  34. a blaming “you” line
  35. step 4
  36. False
  37. False
  38. True
  39. True
  40. say why it matters

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