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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 803 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or name the action? (a) ask for a change (b) name the action
  2. 2.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Too late.” (b) “Whatever.” (c) “You should be sorry!” (d) “Thanks for listening.”
  3. 3.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  4. 4.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or ask for a change? (a) give your reason (b) ask for a change
  5. 5.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or ask for a change? (a) name the action (b) ask for a change
  6. 6.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  7. 7.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  8. 8.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) your own feelings (b) the weather (c) old fights (d) the other’s faults
  9. 9.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  10. 10.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You never listen!” (b) “You ignore me!” (c) “I feel left out.” (d) “You’re so rude!”
  11. 11.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say when it happens? (a) ask for a change (b) say when it happens
  12. 12.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or name the action? (a) say how you feel (b) name the action
  13. 13.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  14. 14.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name the action? (a) say why it matters (b) name the action
  15. 15.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  16. 16.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or name your feeling? (a) ask for a change (b) name your feeling
  17. 17.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  18. 18.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) hungry (b) happy (c) sleepy (d) upset
  19. 19.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  20. 20.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  21. 21.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name your feeling? (a) say why it matters (b) name your feeling
  24. 24.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they sound louder (b) they win the fight (c) they hide feelings (d) they don’t attack
  25. 25.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  26. 26.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  27. 27.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  28. 28.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  29. 29.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or give your reason? (a) say when it happens (b) give your reason
  30. 30.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  31. 31.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  32. 32.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  33. 33.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  34. 34.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  35. 35.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  36. 36.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name the action? (a) say what you would like (b) name the action
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say why it matters? (a) name the action (b) say why it matters
  38. 38.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  39. 39.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say when it happens? (a) name your feeling (b) say when it happens
  40. 40.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) what you would like (b) a list of faults (c) a loud sigh (d) a threat

Answer key

  1. name the action
  2. “Thanks for listening.”
  3. say why it matters
  4. give your reason
  5. name the action
  6. step 1
  7. False
  8. your own feelings
  9. an “I” statement
  10. “I feel left out.”
  11. say when it happens
  12. say how you feel
  13. an “I” statement
  14. name the action
  15. an “I” statement
  16. name your feeling
  17. step 1
  18. upset
  19. True
  20. an “I” statement
  21. False
  22. give your reason
  23. name your feeling
  24. they don’t attack
  25. True
  26. an “I” statement
  27. False
  28. step 2
  29. say when it happens
  30. False
  31. step 3
  32. True
  33. a blaming “you” line
  34. step 4
  35. a blaming “you” line
  36. name the action
  37. name the action
  38. False
  39. name your feeling
  40. what you would like

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