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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 815 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  2. 2.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  3. 3.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  4. 4.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  6. 6.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  7. 7.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  8. 8.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  9. 9.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  10. 10.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  11. 11.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) old fights (b) the weather (c) your own feelings (d) the other’s faults
  12. 12.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or name the action? (a) name your feeling (b) name the action
  13. 13.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  14. 14.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  15. 15.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Whatever.” (b) “Too late.” (c) “Thanks for listening.” (d) “You should be sorry!”
  16. 16.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  17. 17.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  18. 18.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  19. 19.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a loud sigh (b) a list of faults (c) what you would like (d) a threat
  20. 20.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  21. 21.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  22. 22.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) happy (b) sleepy (c) hungry (d) upset
  23. 23.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  24. 24.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  25. 25.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  26. 26.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  27. 27.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  28. 28.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  29. 29.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  30. 30.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  31. 31.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  32. 32.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  33. 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or give your reason? (a) name the action (b) give your reason
  34. 34.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  35. 35.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or give your reason? (a) name your feeling (b) give your reason
  36. 36.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  37. 37.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  38. 38.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  39. 39.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  40. 40.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line

Answer key

  1. a blaming “you” line
  2. step 2
  3. an “I” statement
  4. step 2
  5. an “I” statement
  6. step 4
  7. False
  8. False
  9. say why it matters
  10. False
  11. your own feelings
  12. name your feeling
  13. True
  14. step 1
  15. “Thanks for listening.”
  16. step 3
  17. an “I” statement
  18. an “I” statement
  19. what you would like
  20. False
  21. False
  22. upset
  23. False
  24. an “I” statement
  25. True
  26. an “I” statement
  27. a blaming “you” line
  28. True
  29. a blaming “you” line
  30. an “I” statement
  31. a blaming “you” line
  32. False
  33. name the action
  34. True
  35. name your feeling
  36. True
  37. a blaming “you” line
  38. True
  39. give your reason
  40. a blaming “you” line

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