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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 829 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  2. 2.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Whatever.” (b) “Thanks for listening.” (c) “Too late.” (d) “You should be sorry!”
  3. 3.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  4. 4.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say when it happens? (a) name your feeling (b) say when it happens
  5. 5.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or ask for a change? (a) say when it happens (b) ask for a change
  6. 6.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or name your feeling? (a) ask for a change (b) name your feeling
  7. 7.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  8. 8.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  9. 9.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You’re so rude!” (b) “You ignore me!” (c) “You never listen!” (d) “I feel left out.”
  10. 10.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  11. 11.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  12. 12.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  13. 13.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the weather (b) the other’s faults (c) old fights (d) your own feelings
  14. 14.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  15. 15.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  16. 16.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  17. 17.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  18. 18.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  19. 19.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  20. 20.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  21. 21.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
  23. 23.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) hungry (b) happy (c) sleepy (d) upset
  24. 24.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or name the action? (a) give your reason (b) name the action
  25. 25.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say when it happens? (a) ask for a change (b) say when it happens
  26. 26.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or ask for a change? (a) say how you feel (b) ask for a change
  27. 27.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  28. 28.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  29. 29.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  30. 30.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say how you feel? (a) say what you would like (b) say how you feel
  31. 31.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  32. 32.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  33. 33.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  34. 34.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  35. 35.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  36. 36.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say when it happens? (a) say what you would like (b) say when it happens
  37. 37.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  38. 38.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  39. 39.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  40. 40.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2

Answer key

  1. a blaming “you” line
  2. “Thanks for listening.”
  3. an “I” statement
  4. name your feeling
  5. say when it happens
  6. name your feeling
  7. step 3
  8. True
  9. “I feel left out.”
  10. step 1
  11. True
  12. True
  13. your own feelings
  14. say why it matters
  15. an “I” statement
  16. step 1
  17. a blaming “you” line
  18. an “I” statement
  19. step 4
  20. step 2
  21. give your reason
  22. say why it matters
  23. upset
  24. name the action
  25. say when it happens
  26. say how you feel
  27. an “I” statement
  28. True
  29. False
  30. say how you feel
  31. True
  32. an “I” statement
  33. a blaming “you” line
  34. False
  35. give your reason
  36. say when it happens
  37. an “I” statement
  38. False
  39. a blaming “you” line
  40. step 2

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