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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 837 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  2. 2.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  3. 3.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a loud sigh (b) what you would like (c) a list of faults (d) a threat
  4. 4.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say why it matters? (a) name the action (b) say why it matters
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  6. 6.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  7. 7.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  8. 8.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  9. 9.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  10. 10.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say how you feel? (a) name the action (b) say how you feel
  11. 11.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You never listen!” (b) “You’re so rude!” (c) “I feel left out.” (d) “You ignore me!”
  12. 12.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  13. 13.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  14. 14.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  15. 15.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  16. 16.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  17. 17.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) your own feelings (b) old fights (c) the weather (d) the other’s faults
  18. 18.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  19. 19.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  20. 20.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or give your reason? (a) name your feeling (b) give your reason
  21. 21.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say how you feel? (a) say when it happens (b) say how you feel
  22. 22.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  23. 23.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  24. 24.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  25. 25.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  26. 26.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say when it happens? (a) name your feeling (b) say when it happens
  27. 27.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) hungry (b) upset (c) sleepy (d) happy
  28. 28.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  29. 29.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name the action? (a) say what you would like (b) name the action
  30. 30.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  31. 31.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say how you feel? (a) say why it matters (b) say how you feel
  32. 32.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  33. 33.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  34. 34.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say when it happens? (a) ask for a change (b) say when it happens
  35. 35.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
  36. 36.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or name your feeling? (a) ask for a change (b) name your feeling
  37. 37.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  38. 38.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say why it matters? (a) say when it happens (b) say why it matters
  39. 39.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  40. 40.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line

Answer key

  1. True
  2. step 2
  3. what you would like
  4. name the action
  5. a blaming “you” line
  6. True
  7. an “I” statement
  8. say why it matters
  9. say why it matters
  10. say how you feel
  11. “I feel left out.”
  12. True
  13. False
  14. step 4
  15. True
  16. an “I” statement
  17. your own feelings
  18. an “I” statement
  19. step 3
  20. name your feeling
  21. say how you feel
  22. step 2
  23. a blaming “you” line
  24. a blaming “you” line
  25. step 1
  26. name your feeling
  27. upset
  28. step 4
  29. name the action
  30. say why it matters
  31. say how you feel
  32. True
  33. an “I” statement
  34. say when it happens
  35. say why it matters
  36. name your feeling
  37. False
  38. say when it happens
  39. True
  40. a blaming “you” line

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