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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 839 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  2. 2.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  3. 3.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  4. 4.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  5. 5.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “I feel left out.” (b) “You never listen!” (c) “You ignore me!” (d) “You’re so rude!”
  6. 6.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  7. 7.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  8. 8.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  9. 9.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name your feeling? (a) say what you would like (b) name your feeling
  10. 10.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  11. 11.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
  12. 12.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say what you would like? (a) say how you feel (b) say what you would like
  13. 13.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  14. 14.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  15. 15.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  16. 16.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  17. 17.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  18. 18.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) happy (b) sleepy (c) upset (d) hungry
  19. 19.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  20. 20.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  21. 21.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or name your feeling? (a) say when it happens (b) name your feeling
  22. 22.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  23. 23.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a threat (b) what you would like (c) a list of faults (d) a loud sigh
  24. 24.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  25. 25.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  26. 26.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say how you feel? (a) ask for a change (b) say how you feel
  27. 27.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  28. 28.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  29. 29.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “You should be sorry!” (b) “Whatever.” (c) “Too late.” (d) “Thanks for listening.”
  30. 30.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the other’s faults (b) your own feelings (c) the weather (d) old fights
  31. 31.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  32. 32.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  33. 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens
  34. 34.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  35. 35.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  36. 36.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  38. 38.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  39. 39.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  40. 40.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False

Answer key

  1. True
  2. an “I” statement
  3. False
  4. step 2
  5. “I feel left out.”
  6. False
  7. an “I” statement
  8. an “I” statement
  9. name your feeling
  10. step 3
  11. say why it matters
  12. say how you feel
  13. a blaming “you” line
  14. False
  15. an “I” statement
  16. a blaming “you” line
  17. an “I” statement
  18. upset
  19. True
  20. a blaming “you” line
  21. name your feeling
  22. an “I” statement
  23. what you would like
  24. step 1
  25. give your reason
  26. say how you feel
  27. step 2
  28. False
  29. “Thanks for listening.”
  30. your own feelings
  31. a blaming “you” line
  32. step 3
  33. say when it happens
  34. True
  35. a blaming “you” line
  36. True
  37. give your reason
  38. say why it matters
  39. an “I” statement
  40. False

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