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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 845 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) upset (b) hungry (c) sleepy (d) happy
  2. 2.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  3. 3.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  4. 4.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “You should be sorry!” (b) “Thanks for listening.” (c) “Whatever.” (d) “Too late.”
  5. 5.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say why it matters? (a) say when it happens (b) say why it matters
  6. 6.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  7. 7.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the weather (b) your own feelings (c) old fights (d) the other’s faults
  8. 8.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  9. 9.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  10. 10.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say what you would like? (a) name the action (b) say what you would like
  11. 11.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say when it happens? (a) say how you feel (b) say when it happens
  12. 12.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  13. 13.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or give your reason? (a) say how you feel (b) give your reason
  14. 14.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  15. 15.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
  16. 16.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  17. 17.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  18. 18.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say how you feel? (a) say why it matters (b) say how you feel
  19. 19.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  20. 20.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  21. 21.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) what you would like (b) a threat (c) a loud sigh (d) a list of faults
  22. 22.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or ask for a change? (a) say how you feel (b) ask for a change
  24. 24.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they sound louder (b) they win the fight (c) they don’t attack (d) they hide feelings
  25. 25.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  26. 26.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or ask for a change? (a) give your reason (b) ask for a change
  27. 27.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  28. 28.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  29. 29.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “I feel left out.” (b) “You never listen!” (c) “You’re so rude!” (d) “You ignore me!”
  30. 30.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  31. 31.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  32. 32.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say how you feel? (a) give your reason (b) say how you feel
  33. 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  34. 34.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  35. 35.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  36. 36.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or name the action? (a) say how you feel (b) name the action
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or name your feeling? (a) name the action (b) name your feeling
  38. 38.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  39. 39.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or give your reason? (a) name the action (b) give your reason

Answer key

  1. upset
  2. step 3
  3. an “I” statement
  4. “Thanks for listening.”
  5. say when it happens
  6. step 4
  7. your own feelings
  8. True
  9. say why it matters
  10. name the action
  11. say how you feel
  12. True
  13. say how you feel
  14. say why it matters
  15. say why it matters
  16. a blaming “you” line
  17. True
  18. say how you feel
  19. a blaming “you” line
  20. give your reason
  21. what you would like
  22. an “I” statement
  23. say how you feel
  24. they don’t attack
  25. an “I” statement
  26. give your reason
  27. an “I” statement
  28. step 2
  29. “I feel left out.”
  30. False
  31. False
  32. say how you feel
  33. give your reason
  34. False
  35. a blaming “you” line
  36. say how you feel
  37. name your feeling
  38. an “I” statement
  39. True
  40. name the action

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