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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 857 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the other’s faults (b) the weather (c) your own feelings (d) old fights
  2. 2.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You never listen!” (b) “You ignore me!” (c) “You’re so rude!” (d) “I feel left out.”
  3. 3.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  4. 4.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  5. 5.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  6. 6.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  7. 7.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or name the action? (a) give your reason (b) name the action
  8. 8.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  9. 9.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  10. 10.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  11. 11.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  12. 12.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say what you would like? (a) name the action (b) say what you would like
  13. 13.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  14. 14.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  15. 15.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  16. 16.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say how you feel? (a) name the action (b) say how you feel
  17. 17.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  18. 18.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  19. 19.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  20. 20.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “You should be sorry!” (b) “Too late.” (c) “Whatever.” (d) “Thanks for listening.”
  21. 21.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they sound louder (b) they win the fight (c) they don’t attack (d) they hide feelings
  22. 22.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  23. 23.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  24. 24.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  25. 25.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  26. 26.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  27. 27.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or name your feeling? (a) name the action (b) name your feeling
  28. 28.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  29. 29.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say how you feel? (a) say when it happens (b) say how you feel
  30. 30.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  31. 31.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  32. 32.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  33. 33.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  34. 34.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
  35. 35.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  36. 36.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  37. 37.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) sleepy (b) hungry (c) happy (d) upset
  38. 38.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  39. 39.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  40. 40.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement

Answer key

  1. your own feelings
  2. “I feel left out.”
  3. True
  4. True
  5. True
  6. step 1
  7. name the action
  8. say why it matters
  9. a blaming “you” line
  10. step 4
  11. False
  12. name the action
  13. False
  14. a blaming “you” line
  15. False
  16. say how you feel
  17. an “I” statement
  18. an “I” statement
  19. True
  20. “Thanks for listening.”
  21. they don’t attack
  22. step 3
  23. False
  24. an “I” statement
  25. False
  26. False
  27. name your feeling
  28. an “I” statement
  29. say how you feel
  30. step 1
  31. True
  32. a blaming “you” line
  33. False
  34. step 4
  35. a blaming “you” line
  36. True
  37. upset
  38. give your reason
  39. step 2
  40. a blaming “you” line

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