← “I” statements and sharing feelings lesson New set →

I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 871 · 40 questions
TalentJR

Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

NameDateTime takenScore ___ / 40
  1. 1.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  2. 2.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  3. 3.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  4. 4.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  5. 5.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) sleepy (b) happy (c) upset (d) hungry
  6. 6.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  7. 7.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  8. 8.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  9. 9.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  10. 10.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  11. 11.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or name the action? (a) say how you feel (b) name the action
  12. 12.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  13. 13.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say how you feel? (a) say when it happens (b) say how you feel
  14. 14.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  15. 15.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  16. 16.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  17. 17.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say when it happens? (a) ask for a change (b) say when it happens
  18. 18.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or name the action? (a) ask for a change (b) name the action
  19. 19.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  20. 20.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  21. 21.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  22. 22.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  23. 23.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  24. 24.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  25. 25.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they win the fight (b) they don’t attack (c) they hide feelings (d) they sound louder
  26. 26.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or name your feeling? (a) ask for a change (b) name your feeling
  27. 27.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) your own feelings (b) the other’s faults (c) old fights (d) the weather
  28. 28.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  29. 29.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  30. 30.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or give your reason? (a) say when it happens (b) give your reason
  31. 31.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say why it matters? (a) name the action (b) say why it matters
  32. 32.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  33. 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or ask for a change? (a) name your feeling (b) ask for a change
  34. 34.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  35. 35.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  36. 36.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  37. 37.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) what you would like (b) a threat (c) a loud sigh (d) a list of faults
  38. 38.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or ask for a change? (a) say when it happens (b) ask for a change
  39. 39.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change

Answer key

  1. step 1
  2. give your reason
  3. step 3
  4. True
  5. upset
  6. an “I” statement
  7. True
  8. a blaming “you” line
  9. an “I” statement
  10. a blaming “you” line
  11. say how you feel
  12. give your reason
  13. say how you feel
  14. True
  15. step 1
  16. False
  17. say when it happens
  18. name the action
  19. True
  20. step 2
  21. True
  22. step 4
  23. True
  24. step 4
  25. they don’t attack
  26. name your feeling
  27. your own feelings
  28. a blaming “you” line
  29. False
  30. say when it happens
  31. name the action
  32. step 2
  33. name your feeling
  34. an “I” statement
  35. a blaming “you” line
  36. an “I” statement
  37. what you would like
  38. say when it happens
  39. False
  40. say why it matters

Free communication skills lessons, practice and worksheets at talentjr.in/communication-skills-for-students