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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 873 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  2. 2.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) what you would like (b) a threat (c) a list of faults (d) a loud sigh
  3. 3.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  4. 4.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say how you feel? (a) say when it happens (b) say how you feel
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  6. 6.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You ignore me!” (b) “I feel left out.” (c) “You’re so rude!” (d) “You never listen!”
  7. 7.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  8. 8.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say how you feel? (a) give your reason (b) say how you feel
  9. 9.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  10. 10.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  11. 11.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  12. 12.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  13. 13.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  14. 14.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they sound louder (b) they don’t attack (c) they hide feelings (d) they win the fight
  15. 15.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  16. 16.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  17. 17.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  18. 18.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) hungry (b) upset (c) happy (d) sleepy
  19. 19.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  20. 20.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) your own feelings (b) old fights (c) the other’s faults (d) the weather
  21. 21.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name your feeling? (a) say why it matters (b) name your feeling
  23. 23.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “You should be sorry!” (b) “Whatever.” (c) “Thanks for listening.” (d) “Too late.”
  24. 24.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  25. 25.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  26. 26.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  27. 27.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  28. 28.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  29. 29.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  30. 30.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say why it matters? (a) say how you feel (b) say why it matters
  31. 31.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  32. 32.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say why it matters? (a) name the action (b) say why it matters
  33. 33.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  34. 34.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
  35. 35.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  36. 36.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or name your feeling? (a) say when it happens (b) name your feeling
  38. 38.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  39. 39.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say when it happens? (a) ask for a change (b) say when it happens
  40. 40.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2

Answer key

  1. step 4
  2. what you would like
  3. an “I” statement
  4. say how you feel
  5. an “I” statement
  6. “I feel left out.”
  7. step 4
  8. say how you feel
  9. a blaming “you” line
  10. give your reason
  11. say why it matters
  12. True
  13. an “I” statement
  14. they don’t attack
  15. step 2
  16. True
  17. True
  18. upset
  19. an “I” statement
  20. your own feelings
  21. a blaming “you” line
  22. name your feeling
  23. “Thanks for listening.”
  24. give your reason
  25. an “I” statement
  26. an “I” statement
  27. a blaming “you” line
  28. a blaming “you” line
  29. step 1
  30. say how you feel
  31. step 2
  32. name the action
  33. a blaming “you” line
  34. say why it matters
  35. say why it matters
  36. False
  37. name your feeling
  38. an “I” statement
  39. say when it happens
  40. step 3

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