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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 877 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  2. 2.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say what you would like? (a) name your feeling (b) say what you would like
  3. 3.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say how you feel? (a) say when it happens (b) say how you feel
  4. 4.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  5. 5.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  6. 6.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  7. 7.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  8. 8.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  9. 9.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  10. 10.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  11. 11.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  12. 12.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  13. 13.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or ask for a change? (a) name the action (b) ask for a change
  14. 14.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  15. 15.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  16. 16.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  17. 17.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  18. 18.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say what you would like? (a) say how you feel (b) say what you would like
  19. 19.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  20. 20.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  21. 21.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) old fights (b) the other’s faults (c) the weather (d) your own feelings
  22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or give your reason? (a) name the action (b) give your reason
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  24. 24.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  25. 25.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or ask for a change? (a) name your feeling (b) ask for a change
  26. 26.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  27. 27.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  28. 28.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  29. 29.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they hide feelings (b) they sound louder (c) they win the fight (d) they don’t attack
  30. 30.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  31. 31.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “You should be sorry!” (b) “Too late.” (c) “Whatever.” (d) “Thanks for listening.”
  32. 32.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a loud sigh (b) a list of faults (c) a threat (d) what you would like
  33. 33.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  34. 34.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say how you feel? (a) give your reason (b) say how you feel
  35. 35.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  36. 36.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  37. 37.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  38. 38.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  39. 39.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say what you would like? (a) name the action (b) say what you would like

Answer key

  1. True
  2. name your feeling
  3. say how you feel
  4. an “I” statement
  5. step 3
  6. False
  7. a blaming “you” line
  8. False
  9. step 2
  10. step 1
  11. an “I” statement
  12. step 3
  13. name the action
  14. an “I” statement
  15. a blaming “you” line
  16. False
  17. a blaming “you” line
  18. say how you feel
  19. True
  20. a blaming “you” line
  21. your own feelings
  22. name the action
  23. say why it matters
  24. False
  25. name your feeling
  26. True
  27. a blaming “you” line
  28. False
  29. they don’t attack
  30. True
  31. “Thanks for listening.”
  32. what you would like
  33. an “I” statement
  34. say how you feel
  35. False
  36. step 4
  37. False
  38. an “I” statement
  39. True
  40. name the action

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