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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 880 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  2. 2.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  3. 3.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  4. 4.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  5. 5.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  6. 6.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  7. 7.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say how you feel? (a) say when it happens (b) say how you feel
  8. 8.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  9. 9.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  10. 10.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  11. 11.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  12. 12.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they hide feelings (b) they win the fight (c) they sound louder (d) they don’t attack
  13. 13.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  14. 14.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  15. 15.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are so careless and late!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  16. 16.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  17. 17.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name the action? (a) say why it matters (b) name the action
  18. 18.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  19. 19.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Too late.” (b) “You should be sorry!” (c) “Whatever.” (d) “Thanks for listening.”
  20. 20.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  21. 21.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  22. 22.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or name the action? (a) say how you feel (b) name the action
  24. 24.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  25. 25.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or ask for a change? (a) name the action (b) ask for a change
  26. 26.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  27. 27.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) upset (b) sleepy (c) hungry (d) happy
  28. 28.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  29. 29.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  30. 30.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens
  31. 31.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  32. 32.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name the action? (a) say what you would like (b) name the action
  33. 33.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  34. 34.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  35. 35.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) your own feelings (b) the weather (c) old fights (d) the other’s faults
  36. 36.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or name your feeling? (a) say when it happens (b) name your feeling
  37. 37.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  38. 38.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  39. 39.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say how you feel? (a) say why it matters (b) say how you feel

Answer key

  1. step 2
  2. False
  3. step 4
  4. a blaming “you” line
  5. step 1
  6. a blaming “you” line
  7. say how you feel
  8. step 3
  9. say why it matters
  10. True
  11. a blaming “you” line
  12. they don’t attack
  13. say why it matters
  14. step 2
  15. a blaming “you” line
  16. an “I” statement
  17. name the action
  18. False
  19. “Thanks for listening.”
  20. False
  21. True
  22. False
  23. say how you feel
  24. give your reason
  25. name the action
  26. a blaming “you” line
  27. upset
  28. True
  29. an “I” statement
  30. say when it happens
  31. an “I” statement
  32. name the action
  33. an “I” statement
  34. True
  35. your own feelings
  36. name your feeling
  37. False
  38. a blaming “you” line
  39. an “I” statement
  40. say how you feel

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