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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 885 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  2. 2.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they sound louder (b) they don’t attack (c) they hide feelings (d) they win the fight
  3. 3.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  4. 4.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  6. 6.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  7. 7.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  8. 8.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  9. 9.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  10. 10.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  11. 11.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  12. 12.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  13. 13.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  14. 14.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  15. 15.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  16. 16.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) hungry (b) upset (c) happy (d) sleepy
  17. 17.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say why it matters? (a) say how you feel (b) say why it matters
  18. 18.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  19. 19.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  20. 20.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or ask for a change? (a) give your reason (b) ask for a change
  21. 21.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say when it happens? (a) give your reason (b) say when it happens
  22. 22.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say how you feel? (a) say when it happens (b) say how you feel
  24. 24.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) old fights (b) the other’s faults (c) your own feelings (d) the weather
  25. 25.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  26. 26.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a loud sigh (b) a threat (c) what you would like (d) a list of faults
  27. 27.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  28. 28.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  29. 29.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  30. 30.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  31. 31.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  32. 32.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  33. 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or name your feeling? (a) ask for a change (b) name your feeling
  34. 34.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or give your reason? (a) say how you feel (b) give your reason
  35. 35.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You’re so rude!” (b) “You never listen!” (c) “I feel left out.” (d) “You ignore me!”
  36. 36.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  37. 37.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  38. 38.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  39. 39.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say why it matters? (a) say when it happens (b) say why it matters

Answer key

  1. True
  2. they don’t attack
  3. False
  4. a blaming “you” line
  5. an “I” statement
  6. True
  7. step 4
  8. False
  9. True
  10. say why it matters
  11. an “I” statement
  12. step 2
  13. an “I” statement
  14. False
  15. a blaming “you” line
  16. upset
  17. say how you feel
  18. an “I” statement
  19. step 3
  20. give your reason
  21. say when it happens
  22. True
  23. say how you feel
  24. your own feelings
  25. True
  26. what you would like
  27. True
  28. say why it matters
  29. say why it matters
  30. a blaming “you” line
  31. step 4
  32. False
  33. name your feeling
  34. say how you feel
  35. “I feel left out.”
  36. step 1
  37. True
  38. an “I” statement
  39. False
  40. say when it happens

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