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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 894 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  2. 2.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  3. 3.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the weather (b) old fights (c) the other’s faults (d) your own feelings
  4. 4.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  5. 5.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  6. 6.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  7. 7.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  8. 8.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  9. 9.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say what you would like? (a) say how you feel (b) say what you would like
  10. 10.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say how you feel? (a) name the action (b) say how you feel
  11. 11.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  12. 12.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  13. 13.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a threat (b) a loud sigh (c) a list of faults (d) what you would like
  14. 14.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or give your reason? (a) ask for a change (b) give your reason
  15. 15.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  16. 16.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they sound louder (b) they hide feelings (c) they don’t attack (d) they win the fight
  17. 17.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  18. 18.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  19. 19.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or name the action? (a) ask for a change (b) name the action
  20. 20.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  21. 21.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  22. 22.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  23. 23.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  24. 24.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  25. 25.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  26. 26.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  27. 27.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “I feel left out.” (b) “You never listen!” (c) “You’re so rude!” (d) “You ignore me!”
  28. 28.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or name the action? (a) give your reason (b) name the action
  29. 29.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  30. 30.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  31. 31.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  32. 32.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  33. 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or ask for a change? (a) name the action (b) ask for a change
  34. 34.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  35. 35.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  36. 36.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say how you feel? (a) say why it matters (b) say how you feel
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say what you would like? (a) name your feeling (b) say what you would like
  38. 38.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  39. 39.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  40. 40.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1

Answer key

  1. step 1
  2. False
  3. your own feelings
  4. step 3
  5. True
  6. an “I” statement
  7. False
  8. False
  9. say how you feel
  10. say how you feel
  11. step 3
  12. say why it matters
  13. what you would like
  14. give your reason
  15. step 2
  16. they don’t attack
  17. step 4
  18. False
  19. name the action
  20. say why it matters
  21. an “I” statement
  22. True
  23. True
  24. False
  25. False
  26. True
  27. “I feel left out.”
  28. name the action
  29. True
  30. True
  31. an “I” statement
  32. True
  33. name the action
  34. a blaming “you” line
  35. an “I” statement
  36. say how you feel
  37. name your feeling
  38. an “I” statement
  39. a blaming “you” line
  40. step 1

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