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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 907 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  2. 2.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  3. 3.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  4. 4.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) old fights (b) the other’s faults (c) the weather (d) your own feelings
  5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  6. 6.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “I feel left out.” (b) “You never listen!” (c) “You’re so rude!” (d) “You ignore me!”
  7. 7.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  8. 8.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) happy (b) sleepy (c) upset (d) hungry
  9. 9.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  10. 10.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  11. 11.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or ask for a change? (a) give your reason (b) ask for a change
  12. 12.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they sound louder (b) they win the fight (c) they hide feelings (d) they don’t attack
  13. 13.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  14. 14.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  15. 15.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a list of faults (b) a loud sigh (c) what you would like (d) a threat
  16. 16.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  17. 17.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  18. 18.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  19. 19.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say how you feel? (a) say what you would like (b) say how you feel
  20. 20.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  21. 21.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or say why it matters? (a) say how you feel (b) say why it matters
  22. 22.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  23. 23.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  24. 24.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  25. 25.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  26. 26.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  27. 27.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  28. 28.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  29. 29.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  30. 30.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or give your reason? (a) name the action (b) give your reason
  31. 31.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  32. 32.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  33. 33.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name the action? (a) say why it matters (b) name the action
  34. 34.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say why it matters? (a) say when it happens (b) say why it matters
  35. 35.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Too late.” (b) “Thanks for listening.” (c) “Whatever.” (d) “You should be sorry!”
  36. 36.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name the action? (a) say what you would like (b) name the action
  38. 38.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  39. 39.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like

Answer key

  1. True
  2. a blaming “you” line
  3. an “I” statement
  4. your own feelings
  5. an “I” statement
  6. “I feel left out.”
  7. an “I” statement
  8. upset
  9. an “I” statement
  10. an “I” statement
  11. give your reason
  12. they don’t attack
  13. step 4
  14. step 1
  15. what you would like
  16. True
  17. step 2
  18. step 3
  19. say how you feel
  20. give your reason
  21. say how you feel
  22. True
  23. step 1
  24. a blaming “you” line
  25. an “I” statement
  26. False
  27. False
  28. True
  29. step 4
  30. name the action
  31. False
  32. a blaming “you” line
  33. name the action
  34. say when it happens
  35. “Thanks for listening.”
  36. True
  37. name the action
  38. a blaming “you” line
  39. step 2
  40. say why it matters

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