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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 913 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  2. 2.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  3. 3.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say why it matters? (a) name your feeling (b) say why it matters
  4. 4.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a threat (b) a list of faults (c) what you would like (d) a loud sigh
  5. 5.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  6. 6.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  7. 7.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  8. 8.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “You should be sorry!” (b) “Whatever.” (c) “Thanks for listening.” (d) “Too late.”
  9. 9.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  10. 10.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  11. 11.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say what you would like? (a) say when it happens (b) say what you would like
  12. 12.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say what you would like? (a) say why it matters (b) say what you would like
  13. 13.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
  14. 14.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  15. 15.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You cheat every time!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  16. 16.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  17. 17.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  18. 18.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  19. 19.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or ask for a change? (a) say how you feel (b) ask for a change
  20. 20.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) happy (b) hungry (c) sleepy (d) upset
  21. 21.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
  22. 22.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) the other’s faults (b) the weather (c) your own feelings (d) old fights
  23. 23.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  24. 24.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say when it happens? (a) give your reason (b) say when it happens
  25. 25.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You never listen!” (b) “You ignore me!” (c) “You’re so rude!” (d) “I feel left out.”
  26. 26.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  27. 27.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  28. 28.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or name the action? (a) give your reason (b) name the action
  29. 29.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  30. 30.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  31. 31.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  32. 32.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say when it happens? (a) say what you would like (b) say when it happens
  33. 33.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  34. 34.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  35. 35.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or name your feeling? (a) say when it happens (b) name your feeling
  36. 36.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  37. 37.True or false: “You never include me!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  38. 38.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens
  39. 39.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like

Answer key

  1. step 1
  2. a blaming “you” line
  3. name your feeling
  4. what you would like
  5. False
  6. True
  7. an “I” statement
  8. “Thanks for listening.”
  9. a blaming “you” line
  10. an “I” statement
  11. say when it happens
  12. say why it matters
  13. step 4
  14. step 3
  15. a blaming “you” line
  16. a blaming “you” line
  17. True
  18. True
  19. say how you feel
  20. upset
  21. say why it matters
  22. your own feelings
  23. True
  24. say when it happens
  25. “I feel left out.”
  26. False
  27. step 1
  28. name the action
  29. False
  30. say why it matters
  31. True
  32. say when it happens
  33. step 4
  34. step 2
  35. name your feeling
  36. an “I” statement
  37. False
  38. say when it happens
  39. an “I” statement
  40. give your reason

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