I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 922 · 40 questions

Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

1. 1.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or name the action? (a) say how you feel (b) name the action
2. 2.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Too late.” (b) “Whatever.” (c) “You should be sorry!” (d) “Thanks for listening.”
3. 3.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You’re so rude!” (b) “I feel left out.” (c) “You ignore me!” (d) “You never listen!”
4. 4.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
5. 5.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
6. 6.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
7. 7.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
8. 8.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
9. 9.True or false: “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
10. 10.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
11. 11.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
12. 12.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
13. 13.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
14. 14.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
15. 15.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
16. 16.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they don’t attack (b) they win the fight (c) they hide feelings (d) they sound louder
17. 17.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel upset when my things are taken without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
18. 18.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens
19. 19.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) what you would like (b) a threat (c) a loud sigh (d) a list of faults
20. 20.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
21. 21.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
22. 22.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
23. 23.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say when it happens? (a) say what you would like (b) say when it happens
24. 24.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say how you feel? (a) say what you would like (b) say how you feel
25. 25.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
26. 26.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) old fights (b) your own feelings (c) the other’s faults (d) the weather
27. 27.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
28. 28.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or name the action? (a) name your feeling (b) name the action
29. 29.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or ask for a change? (a) say why it matters (b) ask for a change
30. 30.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
31. 31.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name your feeling or say when it happens? (a) name your feeling (b) say when it happens
32. 32.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
33. 33.True or false: “You never include me!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
34. 34.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
35. 35.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
36. 36.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
37. 37.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
38. 38.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say when it happens? (a) ask for a change (b) say when it happens
39. 39.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or ask for a change? (a) say when it happens (b) ask for a change
40. 40.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement

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