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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 945 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  2. 2.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) upset (b) happy (c) sleepy (d) hungry
  3. 3.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  4. 4.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You keep messing up my things!” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  5. 5.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
  6. 6.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or name the action? (a) say why it matters (b) name the action
  7. 7.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  8. 8.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  9. 9.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name the action? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
  10. 10.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say how you feel? (a) say why it matters (b) say how you feel
  11. 11.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  12. 12.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or say why it matters? (a) say what you would like (b) say why it matters
  13. 13.🙋 After saying how you feel, how should an “I” statement end? (a) a loud sigh (b) a list of faults (c) a threat (d) what you would like
  14. 14.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  15. 15.🤝 Your friend says sorry after your “I” statement. What is a kind reply? (a) “Thanks for listening.” (b) “You should be sorry!” (c) “Too late.” (d) “Whatever.”
  16. 16.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) your own feelings (b) old fights (c) the other’s faults (d) the weather
  17. 17.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say what you would like? (a) say when it happens (b) say what you would like
  18. 18.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You never include me!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  19. 19.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name your feeling? (a) say what you would like (b) name your feeling
  20. 20.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name the action? (a) say what you would like (b) name the action
  21. 21.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  22. 22.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You’re so rude!” (b) “You never listen!” (c) “You ignore me!” (d) “I feel left out.”
  23. 23.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
  24. 24.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  25. 25.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) False (b) True
  26. 26.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  27. 27.True or false: “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  28. 28.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  29. 29.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  30. 30.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  31. 31.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say why it matters? (a) name the action (b) say why it matters
  32. 32.True or false: “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  33. 33.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
  34. 34.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: name your feeling? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
  35. 35.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  36. 36.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or ask for a change? (a) say how you feel (b) ask for a change
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say why it matters? (a) say when it happens (b) say why it matters
  38. 38.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they win the fight (b) they don’t attack (c) they sound louder (d) they hide feelings
  39. 39.True or false: “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  40. 40.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: name the action or say what you would like? (a) name the action (b) say what you would like

Answer key

  1. step 3
  2. upset
  3. step 4
  4. a blaming “you” line
  5. step 2
  6. name the action
  7. True
  8. an “I” statement
  9. step 2
  10. say how you feel
  11. False
  12. say why it matters
  13. what you would like
  14. step 4
  15. “Thanks for listening.”
  16. your own feelings
  17. say when it happens
  18. a blaming “you” line
  19. name your feeling
  20. name the action
  21. a blaming “you” line
  22. “I feel left out.”
  23. step 1
  24. False
  25. False
  26. an “I” statement
  27. False
  28. an “I” statement
  29. a blaming “you” line
  30. False
  31. name the action
  32. True
  33. step 3
  34. step 1
  35. a blaming “you” line
  36. say how you feel
  37. say when it happens
  38. they don’t attack
  39. True
  40. name the action

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