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I Statements Worksheet for Kids

Communication skills lesson 16: “I” statements and sharing feelings · Set 950 · 40 questions
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Communication tip (Start with “I”, not “you”): The four steps in order: I feel… (name your feeling) → when… (the action) → because… (your reason) → I would like… (ask for a change). An “I” statement: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.”, “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” A blaming “you” line: “You never include me!”, “You are so careless and late!”, “You cheat every time!” — turn each one into “I feel… when…”.

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  1. 1.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say how you feel? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  2. 2.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: give your reason or say what you would like? (a) give your reason (b) say what you would like
  3. 3.🗣️ Which of these is an “I” statement? (a) “You never listen!” (b) “You’re so rude!” (c) “I feel left out.” (d) “You ignore me!”
  4. 4.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say how you feel or ask for a change? (a) say how you feel (b) ask for a change
  5. 5.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say what you would like? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
  6. 6.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say why it matters? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
  7. 7.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  8. 8.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  9. 9.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get annoyed when my pencil box is opened without asking.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  10. 10.True or false: “You keep messing up my things!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  11. 11.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: give your reason? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
  12. 12.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  13. 13.True or false: “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  14. 14.🧩 Fill the gap: “I feel ___ when you take my bat without asking.” (a) upset (b) happy (c) hungry (d) sleepy
  15. 15.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  16. 16.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You are mean. Stop laughing!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  17. 17.True or false: “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  18. 18.📣 An “I” statement talks about… (a) your own feelings (b) old fights (c) the weather (d) the other’s faults
  19. 19.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say why it matters? (a) ask for a change (b) say why it matters
  20. 20.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I get worried when you are late and don’t call.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  21. 21.True or false: “You’re so annoying with that music!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  22. 22.True or false: “I feel left out when plans are made without me.” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  23. 23.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel hurt when I am laughed at.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  24. 24.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: say when it happens? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
  25. 25.True or false: “You always take my stuff!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  26. 26.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or name your feeling? (a) say what you would like (b) name your feeling
  27. 27.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: ask for a change or say how you feel? (a) ask for a change (b) say how you feel
  28. 28.True or false: “You are so careless and late!” is an “I” statement. (a) False (b) True
  29. 29.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You’re so annoying with that music!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  30. 30.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel sad when my turn is skipped.” (a) a blaming “you” line (b) an “I” statement
  31. 31.🗣️ Which step of an “I” statement is this: ask for a change? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
  32. 32.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is an “I” statement. (a) True (b) False
  33. 33.True or false: “You cheat every time!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False
  34. 34.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say when it happens or say how you feel? (a) say when it happens (b) say how you feel
  35. 35.🧠 Why do “I” statements work better than blaming? (a) they hide feelings (b) they sound louder (c) they don’t attack (d) they win the fight
  36. 36.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “You always take my stuff!” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  37. 37.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say why it matters or say when it happens? (a) say why it matters (b) say when it happens
  38. 38.🗣️ In an “I” statement, which comes first: say what you would like or give your reason? (a) say what you would like (b) give your reason
  39. 39.🗣️ An “I” statement or a blaming “you” line? “I feel stressed when the music is loud while I study.” (a) an “I” statement (b) a blaming “you” line
  40. 40.True or false: “You are mean. Stop laughing!” is a blaming “you” line. (a) True (b) False

Answer key

  1. step 1
  2. give your reason
  3. “I feel left out.”
  4. say how you feel
  5. step 4
  6. step 3
  7. False
  8. True
  9. an “I” statement
  10. True
  11. step 3
  12. False
  13. False
  14. upset
  15. an “I” statement
  16. a blaming “you” line
  17. True
  18. your own feelings
  19. say why it matters
  20. an “I” statement
  21. False
  22. True
  23. an “I” statement
  24. step 2
  25. False
  26. name your feeling
  27. say how you feel
  28. False
  29. a blaming “you” line
  30. an “I” statement
  31. step 4
  32. False
  33. True
  34. say how you feel
  35. they don’t attack
  36. a blaming “you” line
  37. say when it happens
  38. give your reason
  39. an “I” statement
  40. True

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